"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ChrizZ

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Nothing really special today, except for these two approaches:

#1 I was on the bus today, so a hot, tall blonde chick getting on the bus with her ugly friend. I wanted to approach them, but it was impossible since there were no seats next to them. So I waited until the bus stopped, I got off the bus and approached her immediately.

Me: Hi, do you know where XYZ is?
Her: *mumbling something*
Me: Do you even speak English?
Her: Haha, yes I do. I don't know where it is.

...then everything went really fast from there. Her ugly CB friend yells "Hey, we gotta catch our bus, come on!" and then she ejects. It was all a matter of seconds.

What would have been the best thing to do in that situation. Prolly going direct from the beginning?

#2

Me at the courthouse. It was just me and some Asian chick. She wasn't hot, but I still approached her.

Me: Hi, how are you?
Chick: Good
Me: So how many people did you kill to get here?
Chick: *laughs* nobody!
Me: Hmm, really? So why are you acting so nervous then? (said jokingly)
Chick: lol, I'm just here because I got caught drinking.
Me: What's your name?
Chick: Asian.
Me: I'm Chris.
Me: So you are a party girl then. What's your favorite club?
Chick: blablabla
Me: I don't like that club. It's too crowded all the time. I feel like I can't even move in there.
So what's your relationship status?
Chick: I have a bf.
Me: Well, good for you. I'm not really a relationship kinda guy. Well, call me a hopeless romantic, but I have so much love to give. One woman is never enough. However you seem like you are in a happy relationship. That shows that you prolly know how to treat a man very well.
Chick: Yeah, we haven't really been dating for that long and I don't know if he really is the right person for me.
Me: So what do you do here California then?
Chick: I go to language school.
Me: No, I mean what do you really do here?
Chick: I party lol.
Me: Yeah, I love partying *telling a little story*
Me: That's all? Partying is good, but what do you do for fun?
I mean, me for example I love to box. I like how I get all pumped up before a fight. It's so much fun unless the other guy is bigger than you. Then I just try to kinda kick him in the balls and run for my life.
Chick: haha, I like to dance.
Me: Sexy and a great dancer I like that. A woman that is a good dancer is a big turn on. So at what nightclub do you dance?
Chick: No, I'm not that kind of a dancer lol. I dance ballet.
Me: How about you give me a lapdance then... ballet style.
Chick: haha. Not here.
Me: I understand. Well, it's time for me to go. I really enjoyed talking to ya. Gimme your number and we'll talk some more in the future.
Chick: Sure, it's blablabla. What's yours?
Me: I gave you a call so you got my number.

...pretty good approach here. IL seemed really high. Too bad she wasn't hot.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ChrizZ

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I actually got approached by a chick on campus today.

I was walking around and was late for class when I see a hot chick walking towards me. I looked at her and she started saying hi to me and stopped.

Her: Hi...

Me: Hey, I'm in a hurry. Whatsup?

Her: I want to give you my number...

Me: Not very original, but you are cute. What is it?

Her: It's blablaba

Me: Aight, I'll give you a call sometime.

The good thing is the chick was hot and I have never been approached by a woman like that before.
 

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Hey man nice journal, i am probablly in similar state when u started this journal, but its about combining the right amount of intent with C&F, which u did. Has the journal progressed ur questions become a bit more unique, instead of the usual boring ones (which i am doing sadly enough), also if u do those u move very quickly on to storys or a different subject. U also have a very dominant presence at the end, which no girl could really reject. Thanks for the insight chris.
 

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ChrizZ said:
I actually got approached by a chick on campus today.

I was walking around and was late for class when I see a hot chick walking towards me. I looked at her and she started saying hi to me and stopped.

Her: Hi...

Me: Hey, I'm in a hurry. Whatsup?

Her: I want to give you my number...

Me: Not very original, but you are cute. What is it?

Her: It's blablaba

Me: Aight, I'll give you a call sometime.

The good thing is the chick was hot and I have never been approached by a woman like that before.
What the ****?

I wish this **** would happen to me....
 
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