Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ChrizZ

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Did one approach today. I can feel that I'm getting better and better.

Saw an HB8 sitting down on a bench at a bus station.

Me: Hmm, I wonder what alligator poop looks like.

HB8.5: What?

Me: Oh, I said hey how are you!?

HB8.5: I'm good. How are you?

Me: I'm feeling like an 8 today, almost a 9

HB8.5: *Smiles*

Me: So what's your life story?

HB8.5: I don't know...

Me: Okay, I'll go first. My name is ChrizZ btw.

HB8.5: Hi, I'm Sarah.

Me: *Telling her about my life and everything* Okay, your turn now.

HB8.5: *opens up and keeps talking and talking*

... a little later

Me: On a scale from one to ten, how good would it feel for me I'd kiss you right now.

HB8.5: An 11! *smile*

Me: I tell you what Sarah. You are a cute and sweet girl. I want to see you again.

HB8.5: Sure, my number is blablabla

Tomorrow I'll go for 20 approaches in one day!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think your approaches are really good but I think you should cut out the I think you are cute part. That usually makes them feel uncomfortable and trust me I know because I used to do it plus I know a lot of girls that say they get creeped out when guys say they are beautiful or cute when they don't know them.
 

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The Sperminator said:
I think your approaches are really good but I think you should cut out the I think you are cute part. That usually makes them feel uncomfortable and trust me I know because I used to do it plus I know a lot of girls that say they get creeped out when guys say they are beautiful or cute when they don't know them.
good point, but they will feel comfortable if you reveal your unique self first and learn how to connect with them. If you do it right, she will feel like she has known you forever. This also helps not to land in the friendzone.
 

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I did 2 approaches today.

One was really bad because I ran out things to say and I was really nervous. I crashed and burned.

I then decided to do one more. Here it is:

I saw an HB8 sitting by herself studying in the cafeteria.

Me: Hi, how are you?

HB: Good.

Me: Whats your name?

HB: I'm HB.

*shake hands*

Me: I'm ChrizZ. You are a cute girl HB. I want to take you out sometime.

HB: Okay.

Me: What's your number?

HB: blablablabla

...that's it fellas.:D

more approaches coming soon.
 

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That seems good. For her to give you the number that quick, you definitely came in there as higher value. Though, since the set was so short, it wouldn't be a big surprise if she flaked.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ElStud said:
That seems good. For her to give you the number that quick, you definitely came in there as higher value. Though, since the set was so short, it wouldn't be a big surprise if she flaked.
true dat. I still stayed a little longer after the n# close though. Couldn't exactly remember what I said that's why I didn't write it down.
 

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I'd really like to get some more feedback from you guys.
 

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ChrizZ said:
good point, but they will feel comfortable if you reveal your unique self first and learn how to connect with them. If you do it right, she will feel like she has known you forever. This also helps not to land in the friendzone.
word. I think that there is nothing wrong with calling them cute either.

As for the journal, some funny stuff in there, good C&F, I like the style. The thing is you are showing you are a cool guy, unphased by a hot chick, but you are not creating rapport. I think you are a funny guy, but you are not connecting with the enough imo. I am predicting a decent amount of flakes between the #closes you get, coz when you call they will remember that its that funny guy, but they wont feel as much of a connection. I could be wrong, but even if the chicks dont flake, I think you could click better with the girls
 

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Microphone Fiend said:
word. I think that there is nothing wrong with calling them cute either.

As for the journal, some funny stuff in there, good C&F, I like the style. The thing is you are showing you are a cool guy, unphased by a hot chick, but you are not creating rapport. I think you are a funny guy, but you are not connecting with the enough imo. I am predicting a decent amount of flakes between the #closes you get, coz when you call they will remember that its that funny guy, but they wont feel as much of a connection. I could be wrong, but even if the chicks dont flake, I think you could click better with the girls
that's true.

However I'm not interested in them at all because pretty much all of them have the personality of a wet carrot. All I want is to bang them. I will try something out the next time. I will be as dominant as possible and skip the small talk.

I'll either end up in jail or I will bang them the same day like they do in porn movies.

I'll keep you guys updated.

More feedback pls.
 

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well wat im saying is unless you bang them the same day, who is to say that they are gonna pick up when u call or w/e? How do you know they don't have a personality if they were sitting back and watching you perform?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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did one more approach today. At the gym. Saw this cute HB8 selling stuff at the counter.

Me: Hi, how are you?

Her: Good.

Me: What's your name?

Her: HB. What's yours?

Me: I'm ChrizZ. How do you like working here?

Her: Oh, it's okay I guess.

Me: I tell you what HB, you quit your job right now cuz I'm more fun than your job and we'll travel till the end of the world together.

Her: *cracks up* Yeah, I would like that.

Me: So when do you wanna hook up?

Her: Hook up to do what?

Me: I haven't decided yet. Depends on how well you behave. So what's your number?

Her: It's blablablaba

Me: Aight. I'll give you a call sometime.
 

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I feel that I'm slowly becoming a man with balls of steel.:box:
 

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did another approach today. Saw hb9 working at the counter in the library.

Me: hi, how are you?

Hb: good.

Me: whats your name?

Hb: i'm hb (handshake)

Me: you are damn sexy hb!

Hb: (laughs and blushes)

Me: so when do you wanna hook up?

Hb: haha, you are a funny guy.

Me: that's just one of my talents. So would next week be fine?

Hb: i don't know you enough...

Me: so what's your number?

Hb: sorry. I dont give out my number. I want to have your number though.

Me: fine.

Hb: you forgot to put your name down for me.

Me: it's chrizz. I'm sure ill hear from you soon. If not that's fine,too.


You guys should have seen the people that stood in line behind me. Their jaws dropped to the floor.
 

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I think I finally found out what works for me at what doesn't. I'm only gonna do approaches like this from now on. More approaches coming soon.
 

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ChrizZ said:
I think I finally found out what works for me at what doesn't. I'm only gonna do approaches like this from now on. More approaches coming soon.
well you tell us what works for you? what you mean your gonna do approaches like these from now on? u did them differently before..

You have a high success rate it seems like.....especially since your not creating much rapport....maybe its your looks? like the one where you didn't even make her laugh just asked you wanted to take her out and she gave you her number.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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moto said:
well you tell us what works for you? what you mean your gonna do approaches like these from now on? u did them differently before..

You have a high success rate it seems like.....especially since your not creating much rapport....maybe its your looks? like the one where you didn't even make her laugh just asked you wanted to take her out and she gave you her number.
I'm good looking, but I think the reason why I'm having success is because I'm becoming completely immune to any kind of criticism. Even if she initially reacts negatively I stay ultra bold. I act totally fearless around women and dominate them through extreme EC and good BL. My "game" is simply pure dominance. I exude an "if you don't do what I say then I'll punch you in the face" aura. Women seem to like it and men respect me for it.
 

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somehow I doubt you'd get all those digits if they weren't attracted to your looks. I see confidence, but I see no game here.
 

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smooth guy said:
somehow I doubt you'd get all those digits if they weren't attracted to your looks. I see confidence, but I see no game here.
often, confidence is all it takes.


"Game" is just a term created by marketing gurus to get money from AFCs.

There is no super routine that gets all women into bed.

It's 100% internal.
 

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I went to a little party. Right when I was about to leave I saw an HB8 walking through the door. Needless to say after about 10 seconds she was surrounded by 4 chumps that looked like they could bench press California.

I then walked up to her.

Me: I don't think we've been introduced yet. My name is ChrizZ.

HB: I'm HB.

Me: Unlike those gentlemen here, I don't have the time to beat around the bush. I'm more a fan of effective communication. You are hot, I give you that. However I wanna see what kind of person you are. Give me your number, we'll meet again, and then I'll decide if you can enjoy the privilege of spending more time with me.

*her knees were shaking by that time cuz I had such a strong frame. After that speech the chumps left*

HB: Sure, give me your phone. I'll punch in my number for you.

Me: I think you forgot something.

HB: No, what do you mean?

Me: *then I go in for the K-Close and we make out* It was a pleasure to have met you HB.

*eject*
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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