"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My flake count is 5 in a row now. Gosh

BeyondCharm

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This is why plate theory is so important.

You need to be spinning A LOT of plates to come off totally cool, calm, confident and chill around women. I know this goes against what society says you should do, because society is full of sh!t when it comes to meeting and seducing women.

It is extremely important to be have a lot of womens who are interested in seeing and spending time with you if you want any one of those women to feel you are top shelf...

It's simple really.. the more women you have in your life, the more you are spending time with them and enjoying yourself. This in turn makes you more relaxed, chill, confident and knowledgable about women, yourself and it calms you the fvck down... This calmness women see subconsiously as a lack of needyness which makes them wonder "why is this guy so cool??" and then they want to meet you and "figure you out".

SPIN MORE PLATES. KEEP ON SPINNING....

PS.

I was flaked on twice this week. I still shagged gorgeous women who did not flake on me and the ones who did started hitting me up when I was spending time with non-flaky girls. They started wondering what I was doing and now I have plans with one of them for tomorrow night... See how it works?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BeyondCharm said:
This is why plate theory is so important.

You need to be spinning A LOT of plates to come off totally cool, calm, confident and chill around women. I know this goes against what society says you should do, because society is full of sh!t when it comes to meeting and seducing women.

It is extremely important to be have a lot of womens who are interested in seeing and spending time with you if you want any one of those women to feel you are top shelf...

It's simple really.. the more women you have in your life, the more you are spending time with them and enjoying yourself. This in turn makes you more relaxed, chill, confident and knowledgable about women, yourself and it calms you the fvck down... This calmness women see subconsiously as a lack of needyness which makes them wonder "why is this guy so cool??" and then they want to meet you and "figure you out".

SPIN MORE PLATES. KEEP ON SPINNING....

PS.

I was flaked on twice this week. I still shagged gorgeous women who did not flake on me and the ones who did started hitting me up when I was spending time with non-flaky girls. They started wondering what I was doing and now I have plans with one of them for tomorrow night... See how it works?
This. Don't get desperate with any of these girls, you should try to be spinning more plates instead of focusing on these ones. Anyone can pull that off easily :up:
 
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