"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

My flake count is 5 in a row now. Gosh

BeyondCharm

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 14, 2008
Messages
282
Reaction score
11
This is why plate theory is so important.

You need to be spinning A LOT of plates to come off totally cool, calm, confident and chill around women. I know this goes against what society says you should do, because society is full of sh!t when it comes to meeting and seducing women.

It is extremely important to be have a lot of womens who are interested in seeing and spending time with you if you want any one of those women to feel you are top shelf...

It's simple really.. the more women you have in your life, the more you are spending time with them and enjoying yourself. This in turn makes you more relaxed, chill, confident and knowledgable about women, yourself and it calms you the fvck down... This calmness women see subconsiously as a lack of needyness which makes them wonder "why is this guy so cool??" and then they want to meet you and "figure you out".

SPIN MORE PLATES. KEEP ON SPINNING....

PS.

I was flaked on twice this week. I still shagged gorgeous women who did not flake on me and the ones who did started hitting me up when I was spending time with non-flaky girls. They started wondering what I was doing and now I have plans with one of them for tomorrow night... See how it works?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

drtk

Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2008
Messages
126
Reaction score
4
BeyondCharm said:
This is why plate theory is so important.

You need to be spinning A LOT of plates to come off totally cool, calm, confident and chill around women. I know this goes against what society says you should do, because society is full of sh!t when it comes to meeting and seducing women.

It is extremely important to be have a lot of womens who are interested in seeing and spending time with you if you want any one of those women to feel you are top shelf...

It's simple really.. the more women you have in your life, the more you are spending time with them and enjoying yourself. This in turn makes you more relaxed, chill, confident and knowledgable about women, yourself and it calms you the fvck down... This calmness women see subconsiously as a lack of needyness which makes them wonder "why is this guy so cool??" and then they want to meet you and "figure you out".

SPIN MORE PLATES. KEEP ON SPINNING....

PS.

I was flaked on twice this week. I still shagged gorgeous women who did not flake on me and the ones who did started hitting me up when I was spending time with non-flaky girls. They started wondering what I was doing and now I have plans with one of them for tomorrow night... See how it works?
This. Don't get desperate with any of these girls, you should try to be spinning more plates instead of focusing on these ones. Anyone can pull that off easily :up:
 
Top