"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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my first time..

wildleopard

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hey guys..

this might be the stupidest question you might have faced... but this is my first time f*king a female.. i finally used enuff game to get a girl to live with me for 3 days.. she's abt 8 years older than me.. ofcourse coz she wants a f*k or two.. we made out recently and she thinks im very experienced with girls and having sex..

anyway.. how do i actually start when she comes round to see me.. what do i do make sure i dont look like i got no idea.. i need some suggestions..

secondly.. another important question.. if i wear a condom and put my d*k in her.. and ofcourse eventually i would c*m.. what actually would happen if i do c*m inside her? does the semen actually seep around the condom and get in her? or would the condom just slip off coz of the pressure? do i keep my d*k inside her even after i have c*m? i mean.. what is normally done to keep her from getting pregnant? i just want to use a condom and not get her pregnant but also want to ejaculate while in her p**sy..

i need your suggestions desperately.. its only 1 day left..

cheers..

mark
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just start by making out and escalate from there. And relax/dont stress about this.
For the condom make sure you wear one to protect from stds and pregnancy. The point of one is to help against pregnancy so when you wear one and you c*m everything stays inside the condom.
 

wildleopard

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yeah... but im worried the condom is gonna slip outta the d*k when i ejaculate and everything is limp..
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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The key here is just to RELAX and go with the flow. If you are worrying about things that could happen while in the moment. The moment won't go as well cause your too busy thinking about what could happen. You don't have to c^m inside her with the condom on. I like to just pull out anyway when I'm about to bust. Have her give you head and then, let her put the condom on. Basicly, just relax and have fun.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wildleopard said:
yeah... but im worried the condom is gonna slip outta the d*k when i ejaculate and everything is limp..

You don't need to worry about that. The only time that there is any risk of that happening is when you are pulling out, and even then the chances of it happening are very slight. If you are worried, just hold it with one hand while you pull out to make sure it stays on.
 
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Lol first time huh. Let's see here...Take it easy and relax. I would say probably don't masturbate too much before, like a day or two - that way you have a better chance of staying hard the whole way through. Ummm when you get on top of her dont forget to make sure you spread her legs otherwise they will fvcking get in the damn way. I mean probably no matter what you do, it's kinda hard to look like you know what your doing if you haven't been with a woman before. You'll see, as we all have seen for our first times. Ehhh...But overall trust me you do not have to worry too much because if she really likes you then performance wont really be that important. I'm betting that you'll find sex to be kind of underwhelming.
 

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Before I bust, I always look down and make sure the condom is still on. It won't look strange to do that. In fact I look at it carefully enough to make sure there's no tears in it, and when I take the damn thing off in the bathroom you better bet I look at it before flushing it down to toilet so I know if she comes back with some crap about being pregnant, I'll know my condom wasn't the one leaking.
 
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