"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My first tattoo....

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Got my 1st tattoo 2nite....On my (inside) right arm...my mom's name in Big Fonts (Cursive)....

What kind of lotion should I put on the best. And how offten should I have to do the method.

And or if its best to put on lotion at a certaint time?

Holla back...And Peace and 1 Luv!!!

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Because different tattoo artists use different types of inks, it's best to ask the artist who did your work how to aftercare.

Typically you should never ever use anything with alcohol in it as it will dry it out completely and the ink will come out with the scab.

I use bacitracin for the first 3 days every 4 hours then let it air dry. Then use a very good moisturizing lotion for the next 10 days every 6-8 hours. I use Eucerin

After a total of 2 weeks let it dry and allow the scab to come off on it's own. NEVER PICK IT.

You do know you'll get the bug now, don't you? Every few months you'll get an unscratchable itch in your mind for more ink.

Welcome to the club brother.
 

theunflushables

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Karma's right I just got number 8, and it's only been five years since I started.

I wouldn't say allow the scabs to come off though. Your tattoo should never scab, its should peel and flake like a sunburn. Again don't pick it at it.

Also use unscented lotions as the dyes and the perfumes can irritate it. Wash with antibitotic unscented soap while healing.
 
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