"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My first successful cut, 19% to 10% body fat, with before & after pic

Duracell_Bunny

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Thought this might encourage a few peeps.

12th April - 12st 12 (180ibs) 19% bf
8th July - 11st 10 (164ibs) 10.3% bf

My height is 5ft 10.

Heres the before and after pic: http://oi56.tinypic.com/f3t37r.jpg

10 days ago I got to 9.8% but weirdly it went up on the last week of training even though I hit pushed harder with diet/sleep 100% spot on???

I was doing 15-20mins HIIT before breakfast and did not expereince any major muscle loss, even though I found people all over the internet going on about this myth.

I'm off abroad on holiday in a couple of days, I think this will be the first time I feel comfortable walking down the beach with my top off.

Didn't quite get the abs out enough as I would of liked but what the hell, I look way better than before.

Depending on how much fat a gain from my holiday I will start looking at gaining when I get back.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cheers.

I think having a set deadline that could't be moved helped rather than a "goal".

The diet and sleep was what had the most affect, mainly cutting out all aspects of sugar and drinking water 24/7. I was drinking green tea, and then large amounts of naturally caffine free fruit/hurbal teas. Protien was kept very high. I found that it didn't really matter what time I went to sleep at night, it was the time I physcally got out of bed in the morning that mattered the most. If I slept in I felt tierd and lathergic for the rest of that day.

I went for no cheat meals leaving room for if I slipped, and when I did that once it really slowed down the result for that week. In the last few week I took a complete cut on the fruit, just eating eggs, white meat, fish, green veg and salards (with a small amout of red wine viniger and herbs for dressing). Just one handful of nuts per day.

Most of the time I did well to keep off cheat meals, more a less was having "Cheat nibbles", like one or two bits of something I shouldn't.

The only sups I took was branch chains (lots of them, even during workouts).
Fish oil
Post workout shake - 40g whey, 20g Glycine , 5-10g Glutamine all unflavoured.

Nobody said:
how tall are you
5ft 10.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Great work man! This is a prime example of how consistency discipline and smart training/dieting can give great results!

Keep it up!
 

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Wow that's amazing progress mate! Keep up the good work.

Did your workouts only consist of HIIT in the morning?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheJuan said:
Wow that's amazing progress mate! Keep up the good work.

Did your workouts only consist of HIIT in the morning?
I usually did morning HIIT 2-3 times a week as well as weights in the evening.

Cycled 4 days straight of morning sprints, evening weights then one days rest irrelavent to which day of the week it was.

If I had bad energy levels I'd miss a morning of sprints and do these on a rest day or leave it entirly. The weights workouts was where I found the real magic to happen.

Weight sessions consisted of super sets with low rest times.

The changed every 4 weeks, this is an example of a typical chest workout, although sometimes I'd superset with split muscle groups. Gets the heart rate going up. The intensity and number of exercises also increased each month.

4-5 sets of:
DB Flat bench x 6
BD Incline x 12
Pressups x 20 (placed knees on floor when failure reached)
1 minute rest

1 5x5 drop set bench

Leg workouts were very tough and extremely sweaty!!!

The whole plan was very intense and tiring, I'd certainly not do this long term.
 

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Wow, we have VERY similar stats.

I too am 5'10" and was 180 lbs at 20% bodyfat when I started cutting down in June.

It's now been 2 months and so far I'm down to 14% bodyfat and weigh 161 lbs. The only thing is, I seem to have lost a few pounds of muscle that I'm not happy about.

I've also noticed for me my strength has gone down A LOT. And I feel and am much "smaller". Despite looking better and having more energy, my clothes don't fit anymore and I fear getting under 160 lbs. It's been kind of frustrating. Did you experience this at all?

I lift weights 5 times a week and run 6 days a week for 40 minutes.

I also have been keeping a food journal and tracking everything that I'm eating, basically counting calories. I make sure my protein and fat intake is very high as well. I'm doing somewhat of the "Slow Carb Diet" related to the Four Hour Body.

I want to get down to under 12%... but any advice you could give me on what I'm doing?
 
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