My first self-created routine, thoughts?

[Kevin Matthew]

After making the decision that I want to take my game to the next level, I realized that I would really have to analyze myself, and how my game is. The first realization I had was that I never had a real routine. I never did anything to create an attraction, nor did I ever really do anything to show self-worth. I would usually just talk to a woman, and hope my charm/good-looks and ability to hold a conversation would work. It has, but like I said, I am planning on taking my game to the next level. So here is a routine I have developed for myself, and I would love to hear your feedback.

OPENER: I am strong believer that it isn't what you say it's how you say it. Although, when at a bar, I have become a big fan of using, "hey, my friends disappeared, mind if i hang with you guys for minute." After that I go into small talk, what's your name/where are you from, but quickly transition to create an attraction.

CREATE ATTRACTION: (I came up with this on my own)I tell the girl that I recently learned how to predict life expectancy, and I would love to try it on her. If she says no, well, ya ****ed...but she won't. You tell the girl that what you do is analyze how she shakes hands, and to gently place her hand in yours(maintain eye contact). Explain to her that on the count of three you want her to shake your hand as if she were going on a job interview, and she was shaking the hand of her potential new boss(this immediately associates you as a superior, or at least a person with power). While you are explaining this to her, and her hand is in yours, in the least creepy way possible caress her hand by either using your thumb, or by placing your other hand on hers. On the count of three she will shake your hand, and you give her an analysis. If she has a limp handshake, tell her that her life expectancy is about 68-72. If she has a firm handshake tell her 78-82(what you are trying to show is the firmer the shake, the longer the life). No matter what though, never give her praise for how firm her hand shake, always tell her it could be better. The most important part of this though is maintaining strong eye contact, and making sure the caressing motion isn't too overbearing. The contact between the two of us she create an attraction. At least that's what I have learned.

SELF-WORTH: To create self-worth it is important to talk about one's passion/hobby. For me that is photography. So what I have done is bookmarked my portfolio on my smart phone. When I ask her what she does, she'll tell me. When she asks me what I do i'll tell her what my job is, but that I also do photography on the side. I tell her i'd love to show her some of my pictures, and hopefully bust out my phone and show them. This then allows me to demonstrate my passion towards photography, and ask for her opinion on some of them. I even have some pictures of models, which would help.

NUMBER CLOSE: I like to keep it simple. "I'd love to keep this convo going, blah blah blah."

The most important things to me i've realized is creating the attraction, and showing worth. Please, any suggestions, ways to improve would be appreciated. This is my first routine that i've created/adapted for myself. I would love to perfect it, and know everyone's opinion.

 

[Mr Wright]

In attraction, you are better off starting with something smaller. Doing the life expectancy thing maybe a bit too much too soon for some girls. But if you start off small like "are you intuitive?" she will answer that, then you can go into your routine, that way it has more grounding rather than you plucking it out of thin air.

And what happens after you've run this routine? how do you know if you have attraction or not?

 

[Kevin Matthew]

In attraction, you are better off starting with something smaller. Doing the life expectancy thing maybe a bit too much too soon for some girls. But if you start off small like "are you intuitive?" she will answer that, then you can go into your routine, that way it has more grounding rather than you plucking it out of thin air.

And what happens after you've run this routine? how do you know if you have attraction or not?

I once heard a girl say, "If I wanted to **** you, you'd know it." It was actually on a TV show, but that's the truth. If she likes you, you'll know it...you'll FEEL it. When she puts her hand in yours and you caress it, you'll be able to tell by her body language whether or not she is creeped out, or interested.

Can you elaborate more on what you meant by asking "are you intuitive?" Kind of confused by what you meant, and where I should go with it. Thanks for the feedback though!!

 

[Mr Wright]

Yeah, a lot later in the interaction if you're doing well she will give things away. But if you've met her for like 2-3 minutes, shes not going to be frothing for you. Going up to her and running that routine will not do that much, it will probably buy you some more time in the interaction. You have to get to her emotions, push pulls, takeaways, breaking rapport, teasing are all ways to create attraction.

If you're having a conversation, hold that solid eye contact like you said and tease her a little bit, let her know that you're fun and you get it.

Guys new to this will pick up on the signals girls give that are negative because they are too in their heads. More advanced guys will realise its her just playing a game with you, to see if you really have what it takes. Girls rarely if ever give you the green light to go and bang her, she'll suggest it and i promist you, if you are new at this you will lose girls because you're not sure and you hesitate...and probably run more attraction stuff when you should be grabbing her by the hand and just walking out of the place.

Once you've run attraction on her, you still might not be sure if shes that into you and at this point you have 2 options, you can either move with her, a girl will not move with you unless there is attraction, its that simple. I have a running joke with a mate, whenever he sees me with a bird, he just texts me "isolate". Isolating is easy, you just need any excuse to move her away from who shes with, whether its going outside to get some air or going to the bar. And then you can qualify her, thats where the "are you intuitive?" line comes from, that is a small amount of investment, she will give you a yes no answer. Then ask for some more investment, like make a statement or ask where shes from because she looks exotic, if she complies, you can ramp it up some more. But if she doesnt, go back to the small compliance things or go back to attraction and start again. When you are qualifying her, you are looking to ask questions or make statements which get her to show you why you should like her...hence why you can only do this if shes attracted to you.

The key is recognising where you are in the interaction and what to do next. The only way you'll definitively know is by going out and screwing up at each point and working on through.

If you want to know more, I can go more indepth.