"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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my first screw up

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ok theres this one chick that i tryed to use dj skills on when i first discoverd this site but i wasend educated enough and left myself open and fell in love
now in stuck on her i did resarch and knew what i did wrong .Has any one else screwed up like i have .i dont know what i should do shes all i think about now its getting to me i need to get with her and get on with my life cause i keep losing my concentration in the feild has anyone else got a way around or through the love stage its fun and all but i have a felling im gonna get hurt soon
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You can't get hurt if you act to defend yourself NOW. I command you on this spot to stop thinking about her all the time and to sort out your life, and your confidence levels. Read the Don Juan Bible (look down), read it all, become a sponge and thank me in two months that you're over your obession.
 
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It's all part of the process my friend.
At first you feel powerful, knowing that you're armed with this DJ knowledge, but after the first experiment, it fails and you're already in a slump.

Cheer up! Every one here has already, or currently are, or has yet to, go through such a phase so you're not alone. What good is a mistake if you don't learn from it? Keep applying the practices and you will grow to become a better DJ.
 
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