"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
My FIRST Runway Fashion Show in 7 DAYS!
- Thread starter Harp
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
sparky0000
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.Haha...Thankssparky0000 said:Dude, it is a mall fashion show. Just relax. You are not exactly some 14 year old Lithuanian tart that is wondering if she will be selected for the spring/summer D&G show in Milan. Personally, I think it is kinda gay...But hey, whatever floats your boat. Best of luck
It STARTS OUT as a mall fashion show. Then it progreses to Dolce&Gabana Versachi, Valenti, Gucci, etc.
HAHA
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
Yeah I was asked a few years ago, once my body is at its peak (about 6 months from now) I may consider goin for it, thanks for the PMHarp said:
God knows I need the money lol