"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My First Real Thank You

NYC Dude

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Just got back from a long school day with a smile on my face and a girlfriend. I've been frequenting this forum for almost two years now, and just like many of you I started out an AFC trying to figure out how to get that "special" someone. I didn't end up getting her, but I kept going here because I noticed I started having more friends and was having more fun in life. I'm no longer that smart scrawny kid that people make fun of, I'm a smart scrawny kid that gives everyone a good time.

Back to why I'm happy. A few weeks ago, I start speaking to this girl who has been in my classes before but I never really talked to. Just some small talk, some kino, lot's of C&F. We get to last thursday, I'm out on this school skating trip when I run into her there. I ask her what she's doing the weekend, and we make plans to go to the movies. Though nothing real romantic actually happened during that date, I later start hearing from some people about it, so obviously she enjoyed it.

Now we're at today. I see her in class and ask her to wait for me afterschool, after a practice that I have. She waits until 5:30 (we get out at 3:20) for me, and I'm pretty amazed. As we're walking away from school, I lay down some lines along the idea of "there's obviously some attraction between us, so let's stop just being friends and start being more." She agrees, then we go our seperate ways.

Now if I hadn't learned the stuff I did here, I would've pussied out before I even talked to her. There would be no first date, I wouldn't of had fun, and she wouldn't be drooling over me. Thank you SoSuave.com, and the members of this forum, especially Matrix, Lorenzo, Whatsupwiddat and Jester.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hot Ice

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Hey, well done bro!
Finally you are doing something what you should.
For as young as you are I'm not surpriced you have took it easy...

Anyways, keep up the good work!! ;)
 

icallug

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..sounds like you got a good catch, she must really like you, she waiting 2 hours! just for you!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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