"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My first post, i could use some insight..is she a h@@

The luck of Lucien

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Ok so, ive been checking this site for years and this is my first post. That's it!! These *****es are pi$$ing me off. Its time to evolve..
So, a quick insight to me, i created a production/promotion company with some friends that throws parties and events. I only add this and think it is relevant because there is a network of party-goers who know who i am.
Moving on..here lies the query... Lets say Sally(22), who knows me and my crew from the events we've thrown, has a past with my business partner and friend Bill. BUT as of late been hanging out with me..without him. Now, i know theyve made out in the recent past..But the guy blows her off more often then not. I know, he's dates multiple women and he's made it clear in front of her. DIG THIS GUYS, he makes out with another girl at a party, she see's it, then he pukes on her!! She cleans up the puke, forgives him, says he was drunk didnt know what he was doing, and gets upset when he blows her off.
Well, this girl keeps calling me..everyday..she wants to hang out everyday. She even said she wants to move into my house!!?? Weve gone out a few times. I usually pay but its always from the standpoint of, im going to dinner or lunch, why dont you tag along..She kept saying she wanted to swim in my pool, so i have peeps over for a sunset swim, music , wine that whole deal. She spends the evening making out with a friend of mine, that i introduce her to.??
She's asking me at dinner the other night, "why do you not have a girlfriend? you're a catch." "I love your bed" "I feel like your my soul mate"
A bunch of us went to an art show, and she wants to walk on my arm. But she wants to bag my friends. At that same art show, Bill the guy i mentioned earlier was there. Well the night goes on and he leaves with another girl..Well, Sally is all beat up about it for a good part of the evening. Then a bunch of us go to breakfast afterward and she's all over me..But at this point, i really want nothing to do with her..I eat and split.
That was last night and she called me again today wanting to hang out.
Is she just a hoe? Do i just bag her and get it done with? At first i didnt want to mess with her because of my friend but i invite her over for a swim and she makes out with another friend of mine in front of me..
fellas my first post, i fully understand that it may be something im doing or not doing.
lucien
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SaucyBoy

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be careful. She is trying to use you to get back at her ex. Dead giveaway are all the calls. Are you really attracted to her? Would anything with her put your partnership at risk? Don't **** where you live.

You can see her manipulative nature. You are horse**** to her. If you want, you can practice some lines or convo with her just to **** her up. In the end, make it clear that you have no respect for her. Use her to get what you want (some contact with a female) just like she is trying to use you. Just don't let anything pass between you. You can tell your friend that she tried to pick you up if you want and you rejected her.
 

Someone Much cooler

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She is trouble, not only is she trying to make her ex jealous, but I think she soulds like one of those girls that can only meet guys by networking.
 

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Is she just a hoe? Do i just bag her and get it done with?
Yes and yes.
 
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