"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My first porn video!!!

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Alright well, my girl and I are doin great, and last night was the most amazing night ever. I thought I would share it with everyone because I am extremely proud of myself :) And anyone with a similar topic to discuss, feel free to do so...

Alright my girl has a digital camera with video recorder. And yes we did record a 47 minute porn of us last night, and it was amazing. And for anyone who hasnt done this, I suggest it, because its so cool. It is a much bigger turn on (and better orgasm) when you know you are recording it. And then watching it was great. So yea we are gonna make like 10 more... Yea great fun...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Im sure you know that us DJ are very trust worty, so feel free to send us a clip or two (or 10):D
 

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I second Spider_007's motion to upload the video. Consider it as evidence for your manhood. We can give you tips on what you were doing right/wrong. ;)
 

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She would be sooooooo pissed if I let it out over the net, even though she wouldnt know about it. Hmmm intersting, everyone who downloads porn would probably end up seeing it from ***** or something like it. That would be cool... ID BE FAMOUS!!! I might post a clip of the killer bj she gave me :D but thats it... We will see...
 

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I'll even compermise, you can cut out the pices where her face is showing, that way she won't be recognized by locals....and we can still give you props:D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well actually on subject of sex, I do everything right, I know that. In the video she had 4 orgasms... Three from oral. I only ate her out for like fvckin 10 minutes, and got her off 3 times. Everytime I go down I give her atleast 2 orgasms and I can give her multiple orgasms most of the time. See I am the god of sex guys, so no tips needed. But I will consider posting A CLIP...
 

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It would be a sure way of proving you ain't telling porkies too.

Not that I doubt you;)
 

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I didnt get much of her face, but how would I cut it out? I have no video software on my computer, what is a good video editing program and I will get a downloaded copy from somewhere...
 

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Dood you will see when you see my girl, she is a 9 or 9.5... Anyway help me out with the software and I will post some of it...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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movie maker is bundled with XP.

you can download shedloads of similar editors with p2p software.

(stalling tactics I reckon;) )
 

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Alpine I wont let you manipulate me you fvck :) but I said I would do it, no stalling... I am at work (nextel headquarters) and our network fvckin sux so stop posting so much you all are laggin it so bad when I try to refresh it... Anyway I just have never used video editing software. Will I have to edit every frame? And I thought the movie maker was just a trial version, I never knew it was the whole thing. Okay so I have to buy and usb cord first because she lost hers, and then I have to get her to let me borrow the camera, which she doesnt want ANYONE to see the video, so I will probably have to 'borrow' it with out her finding out about it. This will have to wait for a day or two until I can find the time to get to bestbuy and get the cord. She stays with me over the weekend at my appartment so I will do it then...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You should be able to just cut out chunks of frames, like frame 99-300 or so if they have her face in it. Never used the program myself but pretty sure it will be easy to figure out if you use many other windows products.
 

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You guys are ****s... I said I would... Before any of that jedi mind trick shyit was said... It should be on here by Sunday. Okay and if you want to see it, you will have to tell me how to post a movie clip... Cuz I have never done that before... So detailed explanation would be nice my doods. Thanks.
 

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Grim,

I'd be a fool to think I could manupulate a man of your calibre. Merely, you get a lot of guys letting off about conquests and sometime you just get the impression they are somewhat economical with the truth.

I think if it is YOUR choice to do it, then don't be swayed by anyone. If you change your mind and decide not to, then that's fine too in my book.
 

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Its cool, it will be on here sometime over the weekend. I am thinkin Sunday night because that is when I take her home. So yes, I will now be known as... Grim's phallic is a PornoStar... (a phallic is a c0ck for those who didnt know) Hra hra hra hra! :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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