"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My first number!

Lompa

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Well guys, i just came back from my 2 days trip.
My original plan was to go to this girl and try to go for a kiss.
Night came and we were at camp and i went to the girls tent(big tent for 20 girls). The girl i planned on(X) trains in judo so i tried to get her on the floor.
We had VERY GOOD kino (she was on top on me and vice-versa).
Because her freinds were in the tent they were disturbing and she got wired when a freind of her came. i really didn't to lose my night with a causal talk so i sat near an other girl HB7.5(For me lets call that girl Y).

Now Y was really into me. we talked and than she asked for my #.
I said later. We had a great time togther and than tommrow i took her phone and she took mine. We had a SMS chat and she called me.
I really like the company of Y and we had a click.
Wish me luck!
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bigw

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Good on you mate! Really good work :)

Hope everything works well for the future, by the sounds of things they're going to get pretty heavy if you know what I mean...hehehehehe :D
 

Lompa

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Hehe, im only 14 =).
Thanks for the comment.
 

The Shocker

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GREAT job, buddy. That's an excellent start for you. Keep up the good work.
 

Berlex

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my first number was given to me over msn...I was an afc back then but I must have been doing something right
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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