"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My first meet-up with an Online Chick

teddy

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So I have my first meet up with a chick from an online site. From her pictures, I'd guess she's a 7, so IRL, anywhere from 5.5-6.5. She seems very down to earth (actual, real spelling, punctuation, and sentence construction), professional student.

Do I approach this like any other thing or a bit differently?

Her profile states that she's a conservative girl, if that changes anything.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jair213

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dont take nothing serious specially from an online profile.

try to get the lay
 

GS750

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Expect her to flake. If she shows up to the date and it goes well, there's a 50/50 chance you'll ever see her again.
 

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GS750 said:
Expect her to flake. If she shows up to the date and it goes well, there's a 50/50 chance you'll ever see her again.
Ignore this negative nancy.
 

GS750

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LP700-4 said:
Ignore this negative nancy.
That's the reality of online dating. Let me put it in simple terms; don't get your hopes up or expect too much. Online dating is full of flakes. Any don't call me Nancy new guy. If you had any experience with this type of situation you'd know how girls online are.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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