My first LJFB?

[Flabbergasped?]

This chick who lives in my hall, I want to bone her.

So anyway, we see each other often, since we live so close, but I don't actually talk to her. Lots of negs, C&F, all that good stuff. It's a pretty solid interaction, I figured I shouldn't rush into anything and make things awkward in our hall.

So, I'm in her room studying, since I'm locked out of mine. Her roommates are there at first, but then they leave. I don't notice this until I'm heading back, so I could have made a move. I thought they were in another room.

During this time though, she asks me if some other dude, who I hang out with, has a gf. She specifically says, "you know that cute guy *name*, does he have a gf?" Of course, I answer, "I don't know, I'm not a PI."

Once she dropped that line, I figured I've been LJBF'd, and I'm just gonna try to ease the way for my buddy to get her. Still kinda wierd though, since I didn't do anything that would lead to LJBF, short of not cavemaning her. Maybe that's what's necessary?

Could be looks too, he's an athlete and a lot hotter than me, no homo.

 

[KontrollerX]

Meh, don't even help her.

Just ignore her as much as possible.

 

[roman]

she's testing you, not LJBFing. it's a test to a) see if you get jealous and b) make you think you have competition so you will make a move. she is testing you because she likes you, so take it as an IOI and frame your reaction accordingly.

 

[Victory Unlimited]

Yeah FLAB, and if you have ABSOLUTELY nothing better to do, whenever you see her, feed her back some of her same medicine:

Lust after other chicks in HER presence, and even ask her to hook you up with some of her friends and acquaintances. Your mission is to come across like the BIGGEST pimp/sexhound/hookup artist that she has EVER encountered.

And just to give you a mental image to inspire you, ALWAYS envision yourself as the Big Bad WOLF whenever you're around her. Except you're NOT necessarily salivating over HER, but rather EVERY OTHER chick BUT "her".

And oh yeah, always imagine yourself grabbing your own NUTS while you're talking to her too. And the REASON you're doing this is JUST to remind yourself that you are ALWAYS a mutherfukkin' MAN!!!

(But PLEASE don't go around grabbing your nuts "literally", though... otherwise she'll just confuse you with being a pervert, or worse yet----a "RAPPER"...lol).


Peace...one day.

 

[ligyron]

the next time she gives you any kind of obvious IOI or is nice somehow, say something like "cool. you're such a nice friend you know that" and leave. "nice" and "friend", 2 magically words to get her thinking. girls know the power of LJBF on guys, use it right back on her. it's like a false disqualifier

 

[kingwilliam]

What is LJBF? where the hell is the jargan/acronym section?

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Lets Just Be Friends

And yes, this is called a proactive LJBF. When a woman preemptively inserts details about her BF in casual conversation with little or no prompting, this is a proactive LJBF. This girl is just practicing a variation of this.

 

[Python]

she's testing you, not LJBFing. it's a test to a) see if you get jealous and b) make you think you have competition so you will make a move. she is testing you because she likes you, so take it as an IOI and frame your reaction accordingly.

That's along the lines I was thinking.

 

[Luveno]

You are overthinking. Everyone here is overthinking. What she said means nothing. The only thing that will have any meaning is when she either refuses or accepts your advances. As of yet, you've not made any.

Go get em, soldier!