My first humble field report...

[Doc_DJ]

Hello my fellow DJ's

well here is my first FR. Decided that the time of talking, thinking, and plotting is ended....now I act. I'll try to be short with my experiences and have a question or lesson I learned from it. I think that would be helpful to everyone.

Day 1) Went clubbing last night, approached a set of five sisters, group of three friends, and another set of 2 cuties. Tried to number close twice but no dice. Went home empty handed but happy I acted. ( Lesson learned: Need to work on my impromptu convo skills) (Question here guys, what is the best way to break into groups of girls, should I have a few memorized questions to break the ice? What about kino, especially with her friends/sisters watching?)

Day 2) Babe shopping at the mall. While I was christmas shopping, did some warm up convo with random girls, cold-approached 4 girls, convo very short...basically hey what's up, what's your name, what's your number, no dice got the I'm not interested or I have a boyfriend. (Question here guys, is this a good way to cold approach? What about the generic "I have a boyfriend" answer girls give?) last and 5th approach sales girl at the Guess store, she helped me find a pair of genes, I did C&F, had confident body language and number closed with her by asking her to come out clubbing with me and some boys tonight. She actually looked me up and down, and said okay, I'm not doing anything tonight, went to the back to write down the digits. (Question: well called her, and roommate says call back in 15 mins cause she's in shower, I call back in 40 mins, roommate says she is gone so I tell her to call me. Well she probably aint gonna call. What now, next her, or is she playing hard to get?)
Gots more shopping to do tomorrow so hopefully I'll have another FR

 

[Doc_DJ]

Lesson learned

Oh, the big lesson I learned....JUST DO IT, practice makes perfect and if you wanna be at the top of your game, ya gotta go out and do it!

 

[becker]

I commend you for at least making the moves. The main thing is that it seems like you need to work on the "how" part of it. I don't recommend cold approaches, even if you're experienced, mainly because it's always difficult to break the ice unless you're getting interest signals, like good eye contact, smiles, etc. That's the only time I'll approach a random girl.

 

[Walden]

Good one. If you have a wingbuddy then you can always bust groups of girls by pointing him out to them and having them come tell him how money he is (be funny). Just be like"That guy over there is my buddy , he's pretty money right?" at least one of them will say yes, then "Yeah he's totally shy , come and tell him how money he is please, for me?" **** like that chicks love it , it sets your guy up as the sh!t and you come of as super confident.

 

[FoxHound20]

Good to see a field report.. these are hard to stumble onto in these forums.

Anyhow, mad props for the cold approaches. The girl from the clothing store looks like she flaked a little bit. She was conveniently in the shower and was conveniently out when you phoned back. Whatever, maybee it's coincidence. Give her one more chance. Call back and if she flakes, then C Y A.


I, just like you, do group approaches on girls. Am I the only one that finds it easier to do than one-on-one approaches? Also, if you do them, you come across as majorly confident. Not many guys approach a group of girls by themselves. Walden's "this guy over here is money" idea, is killer. I gotta try that out because alot of my wingman chicken out of group approaches.

Best of luck fellow DJ.. we need more FIELD REPORTS.

 

[Doppel]

She helped you find a pair of genes?

 

[Vigilante7]

Originally posted by Doppel
She helped you find a pair of genes?

LMAO, what i was gonna say