"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ambition Now said:
I know now is that I can go up to a really hot unknow chick, talk to her and get her f*cking number!!!
Correction: Not all numbers you will receive from a woman is genuine. Don't be fooled by a mere number... My suggestion: call her immediately to "make sure she gets your number" that way you can bast her balls if the number if fake.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Igetit! said:
That's just plain crazy. What are we talking about here,quality or quantity?
You say "If I take it slow". What does that mean? So if I get a girl's number on Monday,then call her on Wednesday,then go out with her on Friday,that's slow? Are you saying that if it takes you longer than 4 hours after you just met a girl to sleep with her,that I'm taking too long?

And this,"I will take from you what you are after and you'll never get it",dude,that's just plain laughable. :crackup:

So if you meet a girl,sleep with her after knowing her all of 2 hours,you're saying that she'll never sleep with another guy again,that no other guy will "ever get it",right? If two guys sleep with the same girl,does it really matter who slept with her first? You're not foolish enough to believe that each and every girl you approach and sleep with after knowing her a hour is a virgin,are you?

You forget:there's TWO PEOPLE involved. The vast majoprity of women WILL NOT go on a date with you after knowing you 10 minutes...And I'm talking about women in their right minds,not women who are under the influence of alcohol or some drug.
youre from texas man. not to dog on you or the state of texas (because i like texas), its just different in different places. from what i hear, texas is more courtship and formal (ie, taking a girl out on a romantic date or something) when where i am at (SoCal) you gotta act quick, and instant dates are the best. there is no pússy footin around you gotta get er done. i have a few girlfriends of mine that go to UT and they are surprised at how much different the guys and girls are there compared to SoCal. to be honest, id rather be in your situation because the girls out here are bítches but i think its just different worlds (not to mention the girls in texas are hot)
 

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pua1989 said:
youre from texas man.
Correction: Igetit is one of the selected few female sosuave can provide around here.
 

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Correction: Igetit is one of the selected few female sosuave can provide around here.
i dont understand what you are saying.

even so, i still defend my argument because of good friends moving back and forth from Texas and Southern California. The women ARE different in both places.
 

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RandallLambert said:
No that's the whole point - no to go out and count approaches, not to go out and get numbers, the goal is to go out and get laid. If you take it slow and I can take it faster than you, I will take from you what you are after and you'll never get it. So the only other option is to make your move fast, obviously.
If you sleep with a girl in the first night, you drastically decrease any chances of sleeping with her again. Especially if she's not the type of person that would normally do such a thing.

Now if you're looking for a ONS, that's one thing, but if you're looking for a woman you want to actually have an ongoing romantic and sexual relationship with, take some time to build comfort with her first before seduction.

Sleeping with a woman in the first night to avoid somebody else doing so first is a useless task, as somebody could do that whether I slept with her first or not.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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amoka said:
Correction: Not all numbers you will receive from a woman is genuine. Don't be fooled by a mere number... My suggestion: call her immediately to "make sure she gets your number" that way you can bast her balls if the number if fake.


Haha that's a good point. Met a cute girl at a club once and she gave me some guy's number. I think it's great to build confidence by being able to talk to attractive women and get their number but I've found it's easier in the long term to build good social networks (with real friends). I guess I suffer from pride too, going up to girls to ask for their numbers can seem degrading.
 

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ila said:
Haha that's a good point. Met a cute girl at a club once and she gave me some guy's number. I think it's great to build confidence by being able to talk to attractive women and get their number but I've found it's easier in the long term to build good social networks (with real friends). I guess I suffer from pride too, going up to girls to ask for their numbers can seem degrading.
Have you guys not learned yet? You don't ask for girls numbers anymore. You take their phone and call yourself on it! If she refuses or balks in any way to you doing this, she doesn't like you and you don't have to worry about fake numbers or lack of interest or any of that stuff that comes from her not wanting to feel bad for rejecting you.

Or, you could do what I started to do recently. I talk to a girl, run a bit of game and ask her "do you want my number" and then walk away so I don't have to feel like I need to call her in a few days, week, whatever. It works for me, but I don't recommend it for everyone.
 

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Duffdog said:
Have you guys not learned yet? You don't ask for girls numbers anymore. You take their phone and call yourself on it! If she refuses or balks in any way to you doing this, she doesn't like you and you don't have to worry about fake numbers or lack of interest or any of that stuff that comes from her not wanting to feel bad for rejecting you.
+1 rep.

That's EXACTLY right. Asking for the number may come off as weak.

I don't know how some guys go about trying to get a girl's number,but the last time I approached a woman,here's what I did...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=160878

That's what I do. And as I said in that thread,THERE IS A REASON WHY I APPROACH LIKE THAT.

That's just me. And like Duffdog said,I don't recommend this for everyone,but if anyone feels inclined to do it,go for it.
 

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NUmbers mean nothing so get over this quick.. F-closing is all that matters... modern women give their number out to many many men cause they know they can weed out the lame later on...
 
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