"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ambition Now

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Hey guys, seems like putting the knowoledge ive found here is really working...
So, whats the best way to proceed with this HB10 ive just met and number closed?
Thank you!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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King Turi

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Call her up in a few days and get her to tag along to some bowling or somethin'.
 

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Yep! Im thinking on calling her next week and call her to go a bar drink something...
 

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As long as you don't ask her to come with you, you'll be fine.

Tell her you're going for a drink, and she can tag along.
 

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Ambition Now said:
Hey guys, seems like putting the knowoledge ive found here is really working...
So, whats the best way to proceed with this HB10 ive just met and number closed?
Thank you!
Well congrats,man. So you finally bagged an elusive 10. Good for you.

Now,how about giving us a breakdown on how you pulled this off.

I want to know...

How you approached her,and I mean a detailed explanation. How you walked up to her,what you said(verbatim),how you went about asking her out,etc.

Fill us all in man. And remember...

details,details,details!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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..and it better not be through a mutual friend, doesn't count! Haha.
 

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Alright, if you want the details, here it is...

A female friend of mine asked me to come along with her in this fashion related ****tail that was happening together with a business ****tail / reception.

I decided to go, since it was all about hot girls and free champagne... hahahaha

So I was there with my friend and she was socializing with a lot of people she knew and I was kind of an outkast there and started to get really bored...

Inside the place the coktail happened there is a book store and I was there looking for some books and I saw this really hot chick who seemed also bored with the ****tail.

So I was high with all the champagne and I decided to listen all you my SS fellows and just went towards her direction and asked if she was there because of the fashion or the business ****tail.

We talked a little bit and my friend called me in my cell phone asking me where I was in te ****tail, I answered my friend call and told her I was in the bookstore.

Then I said to the HB10: Hey, I really need to go now, give me your phone number so we can talk another time... And then... She gave it! hahaha

Basicly, thats it... Simple as that!
 

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The interest level is not high. It is probably that she may forget you if you wait too long to call her. In any case, good luck and keep us updated.
 

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That's it? I mean I don't want to kill your "confidence high," but she probably walk tipsy and didn't care.

If you really want her, call her now. F**k waiting till next week. She's gonna forget you. Call her up, tell her to meet you somewhere either that night or the next night. F**k waiting till weekends. If she declines, move on. Don't spend all week building her up on some insurmountable pedestal.

Right now, you're feeling good about yourself. USE IT! Move!
 

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it doesn't sound like you put forth much effort. Don't be surprised if she flakes or ignores your call.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Duffdog said:
it doesn't sound like you put forth much effort. Don't be surprised if she flakes or ignores your call.
Yeh, i called her and no one answered... ill wait a few days and call again, if she doesnt answer ill move on...

The thing is that i am not giving a sh*t about it, Now i will try to numbr close every hot chick that pass through my way! Thank you!
 

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Hot girls give out numbers like candy.

It means absolutely ZERO when a girl gives you her number.

Go for an instant date instead and then for the lay.
 

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ChrizZ said:
Go for an instant date instead and then for the lay.
Uhh...ain't that a bit much for a first interaction? Not saying that it's not possible to do,but it just seems a bit rushed...especially the lay part.

It takes a woman a little more time to warm up to a guy.

Very few ( if any) women will go from "Hi,what's your name?", to a date, to sleeping with you within an hour or two of meeting you.

And any woman who would....I don't want to know.
 

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Igetit! said:
Uhh...ain't that a bit much for a first interaction? Not saying that it's not possible to do,but it just seems a bit rushed...especially the lay part.

It takes a woman a little more time to warm up to a guy.

Very few ( if any) women will go from "Hi,what's your name?", to a date, to sleeping with you within an hour or two of meeting you.

And any woman who would....I don't want to know.
Sure you would. I have done this with several girls, but most of the time alcohol was involved and the girl was horny anyways. All I had to do was not screw it up.

In this case, there was nothing exceptional about the interaction, so nothing will come of it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Instant dates are great, but it depends on the setting. Good luck getting instant date in a library during finals week, but if you're both in a club and have had a couple drinks or you find a girl in the park, it's not going to be impossible.
 

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ChrisZ is correct, everyone here has to write 'Oh i approached X number of girls' - approaches don't mean jack and phone numbers mean even less. The only thing that counts is the lay. If she really is an HB10 and you have to come on a forum asking how to proceed, you don't have the game necessary (yet) to bag her.
 

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Uhh...ain't that a bit much for a first interaction? Not saying that it's not possible to do,but it just seems a bit rushed...especially the lay part.
No that's the whole point - no to go out and count approaches, not to go out and get numbers, the goal is to go out and get laid. If you take it slow and I can take it faster than you, I will take from you what you are after and you'll never get it. So the only other option is to make your move fast, obviously.
 

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RandallLambert said:
If you take it slow and I can take it faster than you, I will take from you what you are after and you'll never get it.
That's just plain crazy. What are we talking about here,quality or quantity?
You say "If I take it slow". What does that mean? So if I get a girl's number on Monday,then call her on Wednesday,then go out with her on Friday,that's slow? Are you saying that if it takes you longer than 4 hours after you just met a girl to sleep with her,that I'm taking too long?

And this,"I will take from you what you are after and you'll never get it",dude,that's just plain laughable. :crackup:

So if you meet a girl,sleep with her after knowing her all of 2 hours,you're saying that she'll never sleep with another guy again,that no other guy will "ever get it",right? If two guys sleep with the same girl,does it really matter who slept with her first? You're not foolish enough to believe that each and every girl you approach and sleep with after knowing her a hour is a virgin,are you?

You forget:there's TWO PEOPLE involved. The vast majoprity of women WILL NOT go on a date with you after knowing you 10 minutes...And I'm talking about women in their right minds,not women who are under the influence of alcohol or some drug.
 

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I know I dont have the game yet to bang right away extremely hot chicks and I know number close means sh*t and also that the goal is the lay and not the number close...

But something to realise here is that not everyone is in the same stage of progress...

An year ago I was suffering oneitis from my ex and couldnt even look a hot chick in the face because of fear... and I consider myself making great progress, and getting this chick number felt great... I am proud of using the knoledge that people here share with each other.

F*ck it if I am not going to have sex with this chick... all I know now is that I can go up to a really hot unknow chick, talk to her and get her f*cking number!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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