Hey there mate.
First off, the LIFETIME average for western countries for a male is 6, so you are doing alright
Secondly, the indicator of AFCness is most definitely NOT how many women you have slept with. It is the way you look at and carry yourself in relation to the rest of the world. Do you walk into a club smiling, joking and laughing. Looking at girls for a little longer than necessary (in their eyes if possible), being confident, etc.
Another little bit of evidence is not too tie your measure of success to how you are received. Remember, you can NEVER control everything. Don't try to. Relax and flow with it. If you feel like laughing at how dumb she is, do it. If you realise that you aren't enjoying the interaction, walk away. I know that sometimes you have to force yourself to sarge (at least at the beginning), and I know that some people (including me) genuinely enjoy sarging and meeting new people, but don't do something if you really don't want to. Thats against the DJ mantra. YOU are the prince. Do what feels right and good for YOU. If you realise something is wrong, change it. Clearly you have identified something you can improve, and I commend you on taking that first step. Continue being in charge of your decisions. Don't let a woman you dont even know make it for you