my "first approach"

[onyx]

on the weekends i work at a shopping centre, I work in a area of the centre, where they have all the fast food restaurant, and all the different restaurants share the same staff room for our breaks.

I went on my lunchbreak and saw a gurl (worked at a different resstaurant than me) abt a 7 sat in the staff room by her self. I decided i wud take a walk outside, have a smoke first then go back in and talk to her. Any way, I walked back in and she was just sat there starring down at the table. So i decided that a ok opener wud b just to say "u look bored, you ok?", she seemed quite responsive, but i cudnt think of anythin to talk to her abt except for:

"how long you bin workin here"
"what time did u start and finish today"
"do you go college what do you do"
"whats ur name"

etc etc etc all them lame ass questions, she was responsive but i felt the sh(i)t i was askin her abt was stupid and pointless..

I didnt both goin for a number close as i felt i didnt build enough rapport and i'll most probably see her again

any advice?

b easy on me im a newbie

 

[onyx]

sum answers were short but sum were long

i work in a city but i live in a town, and she leaves in the same town as me, she asked me if i was gettin the same bus as her home when we had both finished, and she went on sayin she hasnt seen me b4 blah blah blah...it was just general chit abt nothin..


thanks for props and advice man..its really appreciated

 

[Sardaukar]

What game are you playing with her? 20 questions???

You want her to FEEL, not think. Don't ask her **** like where you work. You started out fine as long as you don't put a Jesus-face "I will help you my poor child" thing on. You look bored, make light c&f. Ask how's her day, make fun of stupid bosses, etc.

So.....next time dispense with the details questions.