"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My first apporach to a girl

we all eat food

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Ok so i was in the hallway and i was leaving chem class, and this big ass latino ***** was in there also so i went up to her as she was leaving and i said in a Butthead from Beavis and Butthead style, and i said ... "hey baby" but i came out like hey bebeh. Like beavis does, and her and friend walked away and were laughing histerically, and said "That N*gga trying to get some game hahaha"

i was so embarrases
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Smooth Player 056

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Who gives a **** what she thought. The most important part was that you got your balls and approached. Most guys here dont even do that. Youve completed the first...and hardest part of approaching.

On the flip side...I wouldnt use lines from movies as openers. You should have just said "Hey, I dont normally do this, but I noticed you and wanted to come introduce myself".....Im 16 as well and use that line sucessfully all the time.
 

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Well put, mate. You had the balls to try, and it shows that you are confident. Keep trying and maybe you'll get the girls in the end.
 

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Congradulations of having the balls to act like a retard. It shouldnt be ahrd for you to have a normal conversation after a crash and burn like that.
 

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BAHAHAHAHHAA...

wait wait, I'm not done laughing

HAHAHAHAHAHAH

okay okay, what are you going to say....

HAHAHAHAHHA
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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[Sarcasm]Dude finally gets the courage to approach and you laugh at them, yeah, that's real motivating.[/Sarcasm]
 

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Don't listen to these people who are putting you down.

You might have crashed and burn but you did it, and it only gets easier from here.

Just keep reading the bible, and keep practicing. Soon you'll be having to bat girls off with a stick cause you got too much game :cool:
 

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there was a point in my life where I was isolated from human contact for a month or two (very long story, no I'm not a crazy person.)

When I finally was around people again, it seemed like I had lost all my social skills. I've crashed many many many times. Remember, as a human...

You DONT crash and BURN. You may Crash, and that might hurt... but when you BURN and give up... that's YOUR desicion.

Keep on doing approaches! At this point, I am known throughout my school on how easily I make friends with very diverse groups of people.:woo: :woo: :woo:

Never Give Up. Stick with sosuave and www.hsdjbootcamp.tk and we will turn you into the alpha male in time. It's a path/journey I'm walking, and would love to have you walking with us as we grow into Don Juans. Peace & God Bless bro.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
[Sarcasm]Dude finally gets the courage to approach and you laugh at them, yeah, that's real motivating.[/Sarcasm]
Did you even read what he typed? I give him props for approaching, but what he said is funny. The girls response was even better.

Don't tell me you wouldn't laugh at some guy who opened with, "hey baby" - in a beavis & butthead voice. Not to mention a fat ugly latina girl calling this guy a N*gga. Then again Viper, you stray away from social norms.

Oh and when you are being sarcastic, you aren't supposed to actually tell people you are. [deedeedee][/deedeedee]
 

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Well, that was a gutsy move. Next time, nevermind the girlfriends. When those two started laughing you should have said "EMM EMM, like I was saying! before I was RUDELY interrupted by the two laughing hyenas from the safari over there!! Give me your email and we can do something fun without the zoo over there" *holding the eye contact wit the girls*. The other girls will probably say " no he didn't just say that " if they do, say "Oh yes I said that; oh, I know we don't have a problem, now do we?!!":cool:
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why laugh? Jealous because he has balls? Kepp up the work and soon you will be a super DJ and irresistable Alpha Male.
 

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Originally posted by danrizzy
Why laugh? Jealous because he has balls? Kepp up the work and soon you will be a super DJ and irresistable Alpha Male.
Theres a fine line between balls and idiocy.
 
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I'm kind of new to DJ'ing... but WHY did you use a line from Beavis and Butthead? But damn, you must have some balls to say that. lol.
 

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lol i wanted to see if it worked and i had no desire to do anything with her, i just wanted to see if she would like but i made her and friends laugh at me but i dont give a ****. I made myself look like an asshat but meh... im gonna try again on Tuesday
 

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mm.... better then most people lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Remember this and you'll do fine; rejection isn't a bad thing.
 

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it was funny though, but hey that did take balls up untill you spoke hahaha.

"hey beheh" hahaha

and the reply the girl gave....classsic.

we're only laughing cus it makes sure you don't repeat the same thing the next time.

so stop being embarrassed and move to the next girl.

you made me so happy today. that was great, i needed a laugh.
 

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Originally posted by we all eat food
went horrible

Ok so i was in the hallway and i was leaving chem class, and this big ass latino ***** was in there also so i went up to her as she was leaving and i said in a Butthead from Beavis and Butthead style, and i said ... "hey baby" but i came out like hey bebeh. Like beavis does, and her and friend walked away and were laughing histerically, and said "That N*gga trying to get some game hahaha"

i was so embarrases
sorry but that's f*ck'in hilarious. Good job btw man. I play chess, I am now a fairly good player. I often like to look back at my games and say wtf?! I came a long way. And I can see slowly how my games were progressing, just look at this approach like that. And when you reach the top of your game you could look back and smile.
 
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