"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My first 3some + anal

Scars

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Still kind of drunk as I'm writing this, and I'm not really sure how I did. One of the girls I have already had sex with in the past, the other is actually an ex gf of an acquaintance (wouldn't really consider him a friend). Anyway, was at a party, both were. I hadn't seen girl1 (the girl I had sex with before) in awhile, so it was kind of awkward seeing her there. In fact I was actually avoiding her at first. Later on during the night I was talking to her more and laying down some kino, and eventually made her punch her number into my phone again (because I had deleted it from my contacts before). The other girl was talking about how she had just broken up with her boyfriend. How he sucked at sex, had a small ****, was annoying, manipulative, and controlling, and pretty much straight up let everyone know she wanted to get ****ed that night. Easy target. Start gaming her a bit and it got girl1 jealous, before I knew it I had girl1 sitting on my lap while I was sitting in the same chair with girl2. Got girl2's digits and started texting her telling her I just wanted to **** her only (sense I already got with girl1 before, and wanted to try something new) she agreed, so we started laying down together but girl1 was ****blocking hard. They are actually really good friends and I couldn't believe that they were fighting over me.. eventually girl2 realized that girl1 wasn't going to give up, so she proposed that they "share" me. And amazingly they both agreed. I ****ed girl 2, then switched off to girl1, and then ****ed girl2 again while making out with girl1 and vice versa, I also made them two make out and it was amazing to watch, made them touch each other and rub me while I was doing things to the other. Eventually girl2 got tired out and went to sleep, but girl1 was still ready to party. So after like a 30 min nap, I got horny again because I could feel her pressing her ass into my **** while she was spooning me. At first I was grinding her, but then I got horny as **** and whipped my **** out (she was already in her thong) so I moved it aside and plunged my **** in her ass.. it was slow at first and I couldn't get it all the way in, but after awhile I made her lay on her stomach and prop her self up with her knees and just kind of ****ed her doggy style in the ass, and she was loving it. That was my first time ever giving a girl anal.. it was alright, I didn't get off on it actually. It actually kind of hurt, it was so tight and squeezing my ****.. dont get me wrong.. it felt good but idk if thats my thing... but yeah... im still kinda tripped on what happen. Girl2 actually has a bf, so I know she is gonna keep it on the DL, and girl1 was always good about it too, she never told anybody when we ****ed the first time.. so no worries. I'm just kinda amazed.. 3somes are fun... it beats regular sex..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cry For Love

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Could you talk more about how you actually isolated them? like how did it happen in relation to the rest of the party. From what ive been to parties there isnt usually that much privacy except outside in a car
 

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Sounds fun! :rockon:
 

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Damn bro your lucky that they decided to share you!
 

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The thing is, there wasn't much isolation. The party was kind of small, but still a decent amount. I just waited until a lot of people went home and got sleepy. The owners of the house (some girl and guy) went into their room to go fvck, and another girl passed out on the floor next to us. So it was just left with me and those two girls. One of the girls pulled out the fold out bed in the couch and already had it made it for us.

But um, through the course of the night I would isolate both of them very shortly. I pulled one of the girls into the bathroom and made out with her, and sucked on her chichis and played her pvssy getting her all hot and bothered. And as soon as I knew she wanted to me go for it, I stopped and went back out. I did this like maybe 3 times. With the other girl, I had to wait for her little boytoy to leave. But the whole night she was like flirting with me hard. And kept saying she was single and wanted to have fun. So I did a lot of kino on her. I would whisper in her ear a lot, and she did the same. We got really closed and hugged a lot when we talked, I would grab her hands and arm. She would like touch my chest.. I knew I was in the bag. I isolated her for a bit when I pulled her into the computer room for a second to check my myspace (I know lame) but I got her a lone and sharing a chair with me and I was rubbing her legs and I made out with her for a bit. But then people started coming in the room and we just acted like nothing happened.

That's all I can really say about isolation. It wasn't that hard. Most of the ****blockers left because they kinda took the hint that they wouldn't be getting any. I always had at least one of the girls sitting on my lap the whole time. But both of these girls are in my social circle, so it wasn't like I just met them and talked them into a 3some. I just had to work on building trust with them from the get-go.

The great thing is, they both kinda have boyfriend type things (not officially) so they want to keep this on the DL. I told one of the girls I would agree as long as she got me in good with one of her other friends that I actually find a little cuter (she was one of my plates for awhile that kind of drifted off) right after I said that homegirl texted me "Heyyyyy:) I haven't talked to you in forever, how are you?!" ....perfect.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dedication

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So the next question is, how do you get them into a steady 3-some relasionship ;)
 
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