"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My fiend won't give me ride

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I asked if my fiend can get me ride this weekend so I could drop off laptop bag at my mom's. He agreed. Came Saturday, he's drunk, let's do it tomorrow. Ok. Same story with this guy for a long time.


So I call him today, no answer. Call him later again, someone picks up and hangs up. Then I call again, like somebody pressed END button so message goes off earlier.


Thus, I have this desire to tell him that if he don't want to drive me, he could just tell me that, instead of acting like a pvssy. Then tell him to fvck off.


I was divided whether to call him back now and leave that message, or wait and let him call me, then tell him straight up. I open horoscope, tell me go with the flow, don't make any waves. Tells me I'm undergoing some soul searching in a relationship. Blah blah.


Based on that I make a decision to wait until he calls and tell him straight up what I was going to tell him.


Did I make the right choice?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah wait until he calls you back, but when he does dont even mention it to him, dont show him that it affected you in anyway, act as if nothing happened, and if/when he brings it up just reply with "its cool no biggie"

now just be aware of this individual in the future, that shows you that you cant depend oh him.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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He called later. Apologizing and telling me he could drop it off tomorrow. I think I'll just pass.


But here we have, in this thread, trolls, vs people helping, vs jokers. I'll put you all into categories you belong:


TROLLS:

Kev07
KarmaSutra


JOCKERS:

Ace Of Flames
SayWord?
Specialized



Helper:


Bfl




Michele is in category of his own. In my reality horoscope functions perfectly.




Special warning about KarmaSutra, because he's special. At all times his age and what he says does not match. I get an impression that he's either in high school, an uneducated red neck, or uneducated black guy. Some poor uneducated minority thing. Same for Kev07, but I think he's in high school and has plenty to learn. Both men need to learn how to address others with respect. (hint: observe Mystery interact)


An ability to address everyone with respect tells everything about you. Inability to do so indicates you're insecure, socially poor, uneducated, and unsuccessful. Among other things.


I like my friend. Not just anyone would qualify to be my friend. Definately not some high school kid or low life red neck/black guy lacking GED. rofl..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I only made the joke because everything that needed to be said had been said. Are you really so cold as to not appreciate a joke? I think a little laughter is something this forum needs more of. Everyone hates on everyone else, calling people trolls and KJ's, and accusations of racism flying left and right every so often, with plenty of ignorance and stupidity mixed in to keep things going.

Its all taken so seriously sometimes, I just wish people would sit back for a second and remember, that this is just a forum for seduction. For getting chicks! Its basically a glorified and magnified version of a bunch of guys getting together and sharing their thoughts on life and women. That's a simple concept.

So sometimes I make jokes to keep the mood light, as it should be. Don't tell me you've never been hanging out with some of your friends and not made jokes. That you never tease your mates with their problems and their mistakes, in a friendly way. Not to insult them or hurt their feelings, but to help them get over the bad things in their lives and just to get a smile outta them. If you never do those things, you must be pretty damn boring to hang out with.
 

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Just because I didn't go HAHAHAHA, don't mean I didn't like the joke. I like your jokes. You're like Borat.
 

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Stuntmann said:
Special warning about KarmaSutra, because he's special. At all times his age and what he says does not match. I get an impression that he's either in high school, an uneducated red neck, or uneducated black guy. Some poor uneducated minority thing.
Damn, you got me. I'll come clean as my real name is Tupac Earnhardt. I also type with one hand and complain to men that I can't get a ride from a friend.

So there you have it. But I will say this:

I have my own fvcking car and don't piss sitting on the commode.

Can you say the same?

:kick:
 

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Anyone else laugh at the thread title? Here "My friend won't give me a ride" is like sayin "My friend won't shag me".... :)

To the original poster...stop callin, he dsnt want to give you a ride to ur mums house. If u tell him to "fvck off", youd come off as being a bigger tosser than he is to you right now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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