"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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my favorite neg-compliment lately...

Soprano

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nothing really insightful here just wanted to drop a line ive been using a bit lately, if you know or can tell from how she looks/talks that the girl is from the area you are in: "You actually look really nice, you must not be from here"

makes me laugh at least, and sometimes makes them laugh if they have the same sense of humor i do. if they dont, i dont know if i'd want em anyways lol

so far i've only used it on 3 girls, not really enough to get a great grasp of how good it is. let me know if you think its any good
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mikeyb

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Sounds promising if done in a tongue-in-cheek way, I'll definitely try this too...it should also work if you substitute a different word for "nice", maybe "fun" or "bored" or something else that makes more sense in context of wherever you are.
 

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i used "look nice" because it suggests that girls from where she's from are ugly ;)
 

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When I first meet a girl, obviously ask the normal questions like name,age where they are from. This is where I put my neg in. Where ever they say they are from, I say I am sorry to hear that. example.
Her: I'm from California
Me: I'm sorry to hear that

This usually gets a good response like a laugh or hit on the arm.
 

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wt_firefighter said:
Her: I'm from California
Me: I'm sorry to hear that

This usually gets a good response like a laugh or hit on the arm.
as gambler(richard laruina) call that its 'stealth attraction'

you're doing something that its obvious she will respond to that in a good way (hit on arm etc.)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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