"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My favorite DJ movie ever

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I've seen and studied them all..

fight club
swingers
bond
tigerland
cruel intentions
blah blah

Go out to bestbuy today and buy "the legacy of stone cold steve austin" for $20. This guy is my DJ role model. I know most of you are saying "he's a wife beating lunatic and an alcoholic" but just watch the movie. I've never seen someone more motivated in my life and it shows you how he turns his motivation into becoming the king of his domain. After watching this tell me if you still care what a girl thinks of you or if you'd hesitate to crush someone or something (fear) that is standing in your way.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I would have to add "In the Company of Men" to that list. Hard to explain - its one of those you just have to watch. A couple of times.
 

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IPalindromeI said:
I would have to add "In the Company of Men" to that list. Hard to explain - its one of those you just have to watch. A couple of times.
Saw that in the theatre and was disturbed by it. I remember it being really dark. Might be interesting to see how I respond all these years later.

American Psycho--for the character's attitude. Not for murdering.

Iron Man--just came out, but I bet in a while it's going to be one of those movies that gets mentioned as a DJ film.
 

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i just saw iron man... movie is pretty good and the ironman is a playboy after all but if we really would talk about movies where the protagonist is a playboy the list would get too long
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hell yeah Iron Man is a DJ movie, he fcks some hot reporter chick who bashes him with insults and questions the hell out of him in a interview.
 

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Swingers and Cruel Intentions are the best DJ movies IMO. Vince Vaughns's character is amzing in Swingers. If you haven't seen them yet you should definately watch them sometime.
 

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Everyone needs to see 9 1/2 weeks asap.
 

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The Cruel Intentions guy really isn't a DJ in that movie though.

He's more or less a snobby confused metrosexual semi AFC mess of a human being who in the film's 3rd act gets then loses his oneitis then gets her again but then gets killed.

I think Ryan Phillipe is a great actor btw so thats no knock on him I'm simply describing his character and it was definitely not a DJ. There were moments it came close to being a DJ character but never was the character ever a true DJ in that film.

In anycase my absolute favorite DJ movies of all time are...

From Dusk Till Dawn ("Now is my sh!t together or is my sh!t together?") Clooney rules!!!

300- sure gay jokes and political criticisms aside I think in reality the film was a great (if overdone) showing of positive masculinity and the warrior spirit all real men have somewhere inside them.

Bret "Hitman" Hart The best there is, the best there was, and the best there ever will be. This DVD is a great DJ showing in my opinion because it shows how inner game and fully knowing oneself can get you through all sorts of troubles and traumas in life and you can still go on to be very successful. Bret has seriously been through a hell of a lot and has always been my hero since childhood. This DVD not only shows his wrestling matches but details the adversities and tragedies he's been through and overcome.
 
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