You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'm in Asia and I've been around here, China has the same situation, 99% of Asian girls who are with foreigners are used up *****s. Now, India is a different situation with most girls bring virgins until marriage for their husbands that they plan to be with for the rest of their lives but I don't think all of us can go there looking for a wifeDude we are in America. Women are trash here. Society is on the down turn.
Iived in Korea and Taiwan....go after the ones that aren't chasing foreigners but aren't completely closed off to the idea.I'm in Asia and I've been around here, China has the same situation, 99% of Asian girls who are with foreigners are used up *****s. Now, India is a different situation with most girls bring virgins until marriage for their husbands that they plan to be with for the rest of their lives but I don't think all of us can go there looking for a wife
We are once again on the same page zinc. Let me tell you about once such girl I met last year in class. We went out after she showed a lot of interest in me and she seemed like one of those open minded but still traditional girls, not the hottest girl but would still be considered cute by most guys. We went out and I found out she's only had 1 boyfriend in her life who she was with for 3 years and we had an amazing time but someone apparently told her about my profile on a dating site, which she didn't like and we've only friends since. Now I have no regrets of not being with her since I'm not a relationship guy anyways but I'm just saying, such girls are rare but DO EXIST. Now people change and you cannot always predict how they will be behave after you've been with them for 5 years, but A girl like this would have a MUCH chance of being on your side for a long as you want.Iived in Korea and Taiwan....go after the ones that aren't chasing foreigners but aren't completely closed off to the idea.
Foreigner chasing ethnic Asian girls are definitely trash as well.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You are looking for ultimate safety from a woman. Let me tell you there is no such thing, neither from a virgin nor a third world chick. But that’s fine, you are a man and are supposed to handle left hooks, backstabs and blows in life with a smile, aren’t you?“Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place, and I don't care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard you hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward; how much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done! Now, if you know what you're worth, then go out and get what you're worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain't you. You're better than that!” (Rocky Balboa)
You need to go somewhere on Earth where this is still a reality and there you will find the type of girl you want. Its really that simple.The visions you are seeing come from movies, movies based on a PRE-WOMEN'S LIBERATION based society. The visions that you are seeing come from a time when men and women needed each other for survival: