"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My Fair Brady: Average show or Great example of DJ-ness?

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I don't know if any of you have seen this show, probably not. Its a reality show about Brian Knight and Adrienne Curry, with all the crazy drama they're having in their relationship during their engagement. Doesn't sound like anything a DJ could find useful, right? Read on to decide for yourself.

I was watching it earlier today, for no real reason, and amidst the arguments and make-ups, the thought of my DJ knowledge came to mind. See, it was their bachelor and bachelorette (sp?) parties. She said no strip clubs, his friends put on the peer pressure, long story short, he ended up calling her right outside the club. lol. Well, all thru the night they'd been texting and calling for all sorts of stupid reasons, needless drama. Hey, its TV, what do you expect? By the end of the night, she was all upset and he was all pissed, and they slept in their seperate hotel rooms.

The next morning, it was like the sun came out of the clouds after the storm. She calls him first thing in the morning, "Hey baby...". He's half asleep like, "...hey....". She basically apologizes for all the goings-on the night before, and its then that he pays attention and they make up. If that isn't rewarding good behavior with attention, I dunno what is.

He did all kinds of push-pull. While I'm not really sure if he KNEW he was doing it, or he just got lucky, is another matter. They'd be arguing, and he would walk out, go off in the hotel lobby and meet back up with his friends at the bachelor party. She'd send texts and he'd ignore them for awhile. Finally he'd answer a call or something and be like "What?". Once she chilled out from fear of him running off, he'd come back and they'd work it out calmly. Then all was happy and ironically enough, she was grabbing his **** by the end of the show. I'm not kidding.

Maybe it isn't very helpful. Some of the other things he did are very unlike a DJ, such as giving in to his male friends about the strip club idea, instead of being alpha male, as well as the friggin host of the party, and deciding for himself what they should go do. Just take the good and leave the bad.


And regardless, that Adrienne Curry chick is hott. :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Espi - Is right (not about her being a HB7 though) - I never saw that ep but I've seen a few.

He is an AFC - totally blinded by hot ***** - she's his prize rather than the other way round although I hate using the whole prize mentality thing.

The thing is, all those "rock" stars are. That's why a) they are rock stars, plenty of time because they couldn't get laid b) hopeless romantics that get hurt and that makes great music.

Now with groupies they act like DJs because they're the star however when they finally GET their supermodel gf, who is on their level they act like AFCs because deep down they know they aren't worthy.

By the way - Offcourse she appologized, she accomplished what she set out to do already: Basically not letting him out of her sight and ruining his night. The appology was only her way of saying lets "forget about it", while secretly thinking "because I won". Appologies aren't the same for women as they are to a man.

Never let them play you.
 

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I saw some advertisement for that show. This hotbabe was talking to a producer about this new show, but she had to make this guy fall for her. Guess what? He did.

She's hot, but give me a break, if I can't listen to her whining on tv, I can't imagine on real life. Yeah maybe he's getting laid, I'll give you that, but there are women as hot, and hotter, with much better personalities.
 
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