"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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my face reveals the secret

NoMoreGames

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well, the problem is when i'm talking to a girl (or any other situation that i feel shy, even a little) though i'm confident and can have everything under control, my face becomes red and reveals the secret that i don't feel easy.
and thinkin that "oh! my face is red now" decreases my confident.

any opinion how can i stop this reddening?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Crusader

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Just ignore it. If a girls tells you, say: "you can tell? It must be a coincidence".
 

CrazyAsianBiker

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i honestly don't see how you can feel one bit nervous around a girl.

any girl, at all.

Seriously

**** IT
**** IT

i mean
it's just great
just walk up to her
tell yourself you're a ****ing pu ssy
because you are.
and USE YOUR TEST ICLES
THEY ARE THERE FOR A REASON
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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