"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My eyes are small and look bored

Huffman

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I noticed that whenever my face is neutral/relaxed, I look super passive and bored. Like this (not me):
http://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/archive/01007/brown-460_1007774c.jpg
https://i.ytimg.com/vi/EVcyNANK5cY/hqdefault.jpg
https://s3.amazonaws.com/files.rustybrick.com/rustybrick/30678/blank-stare.jpg (the last guy at least has his eyebrows raised a bit)

So basically my eyes are half-closed and my brows super low whenever I'm not making a conscious effort. I feel this has been hurting my game alot, because I can be the life of the party for a couple of hours but the day after, or on dates, I just look like a sad puppy. I know alot of people who have an attentive or even dominant look on their faces at all times. Most people's eyebrows are also kinda raised in their natural state. I'm more like Dr House on a bad day (minus the open eyes). What the hell can I do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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