My experience with online dating(facebook)

[EvilSpirit22]

I sent the same message to over 50 girls and I received around 15 replies but all of them definitely showed very low interest.

Only 3 out of them could make it to the 3rd day of chatting and other girls actually died on day 1.

None of the girls agreed to meet up.


All of them had more than a 1000 friends on facebook and had almost 200 to 500 likes on their pictures and minimum 25 comments from guys who were drooling over those pictures.

I even chatted up a junior in my college for about 5 hours and the conclusion she drew was that we're way too different and shouldn't talk. I was sexually aggressive with her and I even called her fat and curvy.


So I would like to conclude by saying that Beta guys have actually contributed a lot to the ego of all the girls on facebook and even the ugliest girls are been treated by them as queens and princesses because of which the girls would even show attitude to an alpha guy.


Online dating especially on facebook is a waste of time and the rate of rejection is much more than day game or night game.



From next month i'll start with day game and would post my results and findings here.

Till then Peace out.

 

[K_architect]

I applaud your attempt at trying to test this Facebook thing. I'd like more of these posts where instead of the whiny problems of some dude people are actually trying things and reporting results.

From my experience at Facebook approach to even girls aren't that hot that i vaguely know, that are single on tinder and thuss open to approach. It immediately puts you in a weird kind of needy frame from which there is no moving forward. So i would definitely write it off as a viable option.

 

[Moy_1974]

We need to teach our fellow men that fapping is better than resorting to fuggos!

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

Its called candy store effect.When there are so many candies available you want to choose and choose ... women love the know the have 'the best'.Without online most women would be easily as they could acquire males and their attention only by social circle or pickup.

 

[Meisterman]

Its called candy store effect.When there are so many candies available you want to choose and choose ... women love the know the have 'the best'.Without online most women would be easily as they could acquire males and their attention only by social circle or pickup.

So the lesson here is that unless you are basically super model hot, your chances of scoring go down even more when you resort to online dating...

But at the same time there are way more hotties to find online, it's just that they candy pick only the top looking guys, if even that.

For example, in person you approach a HB7 You figure you have a 40% chance of scoring a date with her right off the bat. However if you met that same HB7 online in facebook (like OP), instead of your chances being 40% it would probably be closer to 4% or less...Since they have so many options to choose from.

Then again, you may ask 10+ hotties out online for every 1 chick you see in person, in which case the probabilities would balance itself out, right?

The probability of a 4% chance hitting 1/10 times is not the same as a 40% chance hitting once. In fact I'm certain it's lower. We'd need a real statistician to calculate the odds. I'll just do if now.

1/25 = 4%
That means if you chat to 25 hotties each with a 4% chance of getting laid, you have a 50% chance of succeeding. I think that's how it works, is it not?

If in person you meet 2 hotties at a bar, each with a 40% chance of succeeding (which is pretty high) the odds of you scoring on either of them is slightly above 50%.

Then you consider that the real life women are also likely higher quality than the Tinder AWs who need constant validation 24/7. And that should be taken into consideration too and bumps their rating down a little. Now all of a sudden online isn't looking as good as it did at face value.

But my point in this is that with online it's a numbers game. If you can't handle having your ego bent or being rejected several times in a row, don't resort to online dating.

The paradox here is that this very same reason of fearing rejection is the reason people start online dating in the first place. Hence how you see it can become a vicious cycle, and bend your frame permanently if you don't snap out of it and realize it's not real life. And that even though they may be harder to come by, it is actually better to pick up quality chicks in real life instead of surfing through hotties online, who are mostly AW's that have dozens of guys drooling at their screen over them at any given moment.

 

[EvilSpirit22]

Texting girls on facebook means PEDESTALISING them.

And the percentage of the guys who actually approach girls in real life is obviously very low as compared to the guys who ask them out on facebook. So that actually shows that you've got mammoth size balls and you don't need a wall or cover to show that you're interested.


I've also noticed that the majority of girls who are right now dating someone were actually approached by their present boyfriends in reality and not on facebook.


The girls who got into a relationship with a guy through facebook always chose the best looking guys and even if the guy didn't had any confidence or game the girl made him her boyfriend.


Ugly guys who are with hot girls are the ones who actually approached them in real life and showed unbreakable confidence.


So this is the formula


Model like looks + facebook = get the girl


Average looks + facebook = almost zero chances of getting the girl but you can land an ugly girl



Average looks + real life approach + confidence = get the girl

 

[old_skoolr]

Don't waste your time with FB. Keep it to amuse yourself at the stupidity of others and enhance your own social value.

That's all its good for.

 

[Starwolf]

I Can Confirm this.

did the same thing on another social media site tagged.com

had my best picture up

same message sent to 30 girls

5 replied back

only 1 agreed to give me her Nr# and meetup.

after a few messages back and forward the others died out.
even tho my msgs were ****y/funny and that had them laughing and telling me "you're funny"

also the girls who replied were only somewhat attractive.. one fatty(The first to stop responding), and the others hb6's. The one who agreed to meetup was my age 28 and starting to hit the Wall.

 

[miketan70]

Some have luck, some don't. Guess you just had back luck. If you see that something doesn't work after lots of attempts, go for a new strategy, as you actually decided, right? So, good luck and keep us posted