"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My experience today

danny987

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Today was day one of the Dj boot camp, and i would have to say it was one of the best days of my life. it was all average until the football game. i was bored so i grabbed my friend and we walked over to the opponents side. i knew this would be a good chance to get my hellos in. i said a couple normal ones with replies, and then i saw this 70+ old man with his cane

ME: hi!
Old man: Hello, want a kiss?
Me: umm... ill get back to you on that one. i then started to crack up

after a couple more normal ones i see this women walk by and i said hi and she gave me this evil devil death stare of doom. oh my god that was so fun. i even started a convo with some random guy about the cheer leaders. feeling mentally confident i went to talk to some of my friends (yes i have trouble talking to my friends) after that i decided why not go takl to some of my old friends. after renuing some old friend ships i spot a pair of girls, so i went to talk to them. we talked for about 10 minutes and had a great time. we only stopped talking because the game ended. all together the night was awesome, and what i would call a social feast. Thank you Sosuave!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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danny987

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oldschooler said:
You have trouble talking to your friends... this sites just gone to hell over the years.
because i suck at keeping convo's. you have under 40 post so i doubt you have been here for years


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