My Exit from the Matrix

[Makeo]

Wow, just wow.
I stumbled onto the Rational Male book and... I just can't believe how blind I've been all my life.
A little about me:
Age: 25
What woke me up: 6 year relationship with a girl who had almost 100% control of me. The day she told me that French (a language I speak) is thought to be an ugly language by all women was the day I pulled her claws out of me. I'm freshly single and asked... why am I such a nice guy? I then picked up "The Rational Male" and "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and am now reading "The Art of Seduction". I'm also on the six week journey to read the Don Juan Bible but am scheduled to finish it in 3 weeks.

What I need to work on: Needing a relationship to be happy. Being a Nice Guy. An AFC. Working on my approach (setting up a date before the phone number and/or creating more of a rapport I think). Text Game is kinda weak too. And I'm sure there is a lot more. I'm also VERY afraid that once I find a girl I will want to change it to a LTR. No... I don't this. I want to spin the plates!

My Strengths: An amazing career. Awesome Physique. Not afraid to approach. Not sure if we guys talk about our looks but I'd say I'm above an 8. No real issues with confidence. I consider myself very malleable.

My goals: Become a Don Juan and to help others like this website has helped me. Drop my AFC Tendencies for good. Learn how to be a MAN and join the ranks of you guys. Pick a Seducer type and master that as well (Which I'm confused about because some of the seducing types seem to go against the Don Juan Mentality. More posts on this later.)

Current Problem:
Met this HB-8. She loved my dog and came to pet him. She was with a HB-6. I tried to win the friend's trust as well. Learned that this HB-8 is getting a degree in Psychology and animal behavorism. Told her I'd like to meet her another time to talk about animal behaviorism. She and her friend had to go before I could set up a date. I got her number and texted her 3 hours Later.

Me: Hey HB-8, Spartacus and I were happy to meet you - Makeo
No Reply.
Now I know this is an icebreaker and she doesn't have to message back. I'm using this to practice. Is her interest level to low to message her tomorrow to ask her what her week schedule looks like?
Tomorrow's prospective text: Hey HB-8, I want to talk more about animal behaviorism. What's your schedule like this week?

Sorry for the long post. I'm just excited to be amongst you guys and start changing my life.
Nice to meet you all.
-Makeo

 

[ohrein]

Great stuff, good to see guys taking charge of their life. You don't want to get a girl into an LTR, you want to be able to go through enough women to find one worthy of an LTR (if that's what you want). Getting a girlfriend is easy, getting a quality one and leading the relationship is the challenge.

Me: Hey HB-8, Spartacus and I were happy to meet you - Makeo
No Reply.
Now I know this is an icebreaker and she doesn't have to message back. I'm using this to practice. Is her interest level to low to message her tomorrow to ask her what her week schedule looks like?
Tomorrow's prospective text: Hey HB-8, I want to talk more about animal behaviorism. What's your schedule like this week?

Don't double text this early on. If she's not replying, she's got low interest. Ignore until she contacts you. Tomorrows text looks fine. Don't stress about the details. Just make sure you're trying to set up plans to see each other, rather than chatting. Do the chatting in person. Again, you want to have short, fun interactions and save the rest of the fun for the dates. You want her to be excited to see you, so don't drain all the fun with a long texting process.

Sounds like you're doing well, keep us up to date!