"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My ex is stalking me - what do

TRSX

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I dated a girl for 3 years. She's finding out who I'm talking to and sabotaging it by telling them how much of an '*******' I was. I wouldnt care but it's instantly freaking these girls out

What do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mantis Toboggan

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TRSX said:
I dated a girl for 3 years. She's finding out who I'm talking to and sabotaging it by telling them how much of an '*******' I was. I wouldnt care but it's instantly freaking these girls out

What do?
If it's that big of a deal, get a restraining order. If she's as crazy as you describe, I dont think a conversation is going to solve this.
 

JohnChops

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from what he has described she is insane. She went into his POF account too haha. Great thread man. Yeah do what mantis said and get a restraining order on her. Or there is a third option........ ;) haha
 
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