"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My ex-girlfriend of a year that I broke up with that was truly my first love is dead. She has taken drugs before and looking at the obituaries it really didn't say how she died which tells me right there that she might of went back to drugs.

My whole Dj'ing life changed just in that one day I left the funeral yesturday. My heart is truly hurting right now.

Has anyone ever gone through something like this?

Its amazing you go wake up in the morning and you don't know what can happen, you can be eating breakfast and all the sudden one phone call later your life changes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah, my dad comitted suicide a couple of weeks ago.

Life is a real wierd thing, u can establish relationships for years and years, then in one second it is gone. No goodbyes, no nothing. Hard to understand and grasp, u just gotta keep living your life. The show must go on! Keep your head up mate!
 
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wow i'm sorry to hear that. Losing a loved one is never easy...keep your head up man time heals everyting
 
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My condolences Red, I can hardly imagine what your going through right now - makes you think about things in your life that you always taken for granted...unfortunately once that realization comes it's often to late. Keep your head up. :(
 
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Oh man.... :(



I'm sorry about your loss, dude. Please be brave, and hang in there. I'm even inspired by how you're still going on despite your loss.





Clooney, I also offer my sincerest condolences.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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My one true love might as well be dead to me, as she's married and probably happy. I just got there at the wrong time frame. :(

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.. and yes my dad's death taught me that life is never stable, so enjoy and live it while you can. :(
 
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Damn, Rabid. Sorry about your loss dude.

In fact, sorry to all your losses!
 
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sorry to hear about it:(
 
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Red and Clooney, my condolences to you both. Losing someone you were close to hurts. I can't even imagine how bad it must feel, I am lucky to have not yet lost someone close. Just thinking about losing someone close to me is bad enough.

Godspeed, you two.
 
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Thanks, it means alot.

I guess the shock has wore off of me. Its just when I first heard the news my immediate reaction was pure shock. Especially of what happened which I really don't want to inclose.

I went over the the casket and put my hand on it so I know she heard me so I'm cool. Just gotta look forward.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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