"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So my ex recently posted on her Insta that she's "giving up boys". I know I should give zero s**ts, but this has given me a weird sense of both satisfaction and sadness for her. It validates that I was 200% correct to split with her because she's seemingly unstable, but at the same time she deserves a decent guy in her life.

My ex never really told me about this, but I think she's bisexual. She never mentioned any relationships with girls or sex with women but it was listed on her FB as a possible interest.

She's posted with 2 guys since me, but weird thing is that both of them were just a one-off post and then disappeared forever. So I'm guessing they split with her too.

Still, "giving up men" seems like a bit of a ridiculous leap. Have you guys ever seen any weird s**t like this with an ex and been both happy you got up and kind of sorry for her too?

(In B4 "feeling sorry for a woman means u a beta cuck son LOLALPHA")
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Men do it all the time. They give up on women. They are called MGTOW and Incels. LOL. In all honesty, she prob. has a low sex drive or is asexual. I am told that some women do not put a high priority for sex; at least not as high as men.
 

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Men do it all the time. They give up on women. They are called MGTOW and Incels. LOL. In all honesty, she prob. has a low sex drive or is asexual. I am told that some women do not put a high priority for sex; at least not as high as men.
Well when we were together, her sex drive was insanely high. All she wanted me to do was shag her.

Unfortunately I couldn't because she'd just picked up a permanent STI. So it ended. All I can think is that it's actually cratered her SMV so hard that all these other guys are breaking up with her too.

Which is nasty, because I figured I was overreacting about the STI tbh. Sometimes I still wish I'd f*cked her because she was insanely hot. But clearly it was just as big a deal as I made it, especially since she wouldn't go get tested...so it soothes my conscience a little even if I want her to make it with someone.
 

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Yea, been there. I had a woman I was seeing with who suddenly had a Herpes infection that she didn't disclose until after marathon sex over two days in LA. She couldn't walk right, so I did the job correctly. However, a few days later she disclosed. I ejected her a-s-s so quick and tested myself for five years. I was just lucky I got away scot-free. I am sure she had no prob. getting another bro to fvck her. She had these amazing natural big boobs and legs that went on for days.. But, I don't mess with the herp. Hence, for me, it's so hard to sleep around. That was a huge wake up call.

You did the right thing. She's prob. just going through a cycle feeling bad about herself and her decisions. How old? If she's late 20's and in decent shape with a good diet, she should have a healthy sex life. Is she on any meds?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yea, been there. I had a woman I was seeing with who suddenly had a Herpes infection that she didn't disclose until after marathon sex over two days in LA. She couldn't walk right, so I did the job correctly. However, a few days later she disclosed. I ejected her a-s-s so quick and tested myself for five years. I was just lucky I got away scot-free. I am sure she had no prob. getting another bro to fvck her. She had these amazing natural big boobs and legs that went on for days.. But, I don't mess with the herp. Hence, for me, it's so hard to sleep around. That was a huge wake up call.

You did the right thing. She's prob. just going through a cycle feeling bad about herself and her decisions. How old? If she's late 20's and in decent shape with a good diet, she should have a healthy sex life. Is she on any meds?
That’s what f*cked with my head when we were together...with protection herpes transmission rate is super low and I would have done it with her if she’d just got tested properly.

But she refused to go to the clinic while still asking me to have sex with her. And I’d have to be crazy to stick my d*ck in a woman with one known STI and any number of unknown ones...

We had huge bust ups just because she wouldn’t take antivirals. Denial I guess, but ridiculous attitude.

She’s early twenties. But she was messaging me like 6 months post breakup saying she’s struggling.

(I totally let my frame fold and said me too. Really regret that, it was probably my lowest point with a woman making myself look like a p*ssy like that needlessly...but it was like a year ago).
 

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Giving up on boys?

Can any women give truly give up shopping?

Don't believe that shiet.
 

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That’s what f*cked with my head when we were together...with protection herpes transmission rate is super low and I would have done it with her if she’d just got tested properly.

But she refused to go to the clinic while still asking me to have sex with her. And I’d have to be crazy to stick my d*ck in a woman with one known STI and any number of unknown ones...

We had huge bust ups just because she wouldn’t take antivirals. Denial I guess, but ridiculous attitude.

She’s early twenties. But she was messaging me like 6 months post breakup saying she’s struggling.

(I totally let my frame fold and said me too. Really regret that, it was probably my lowest point with a woman making myself look like a p*ssy like that needlessly...but it was like a year ago).
Yep, same way. The fact that she knew and didn't tell me really drove me crazy. Then, she said she'd go on the anti-virals. Got the RX and everything. She never took one pill. Pure evil. Yet, she's not the exception, she's the rule.

Herpes is a tricky little bugger. It's a skin disease, so a person can be shedding anywhere on the body, and not even know it unless they are tested. My b!tch's excuse was that her doctor told her it wasn't a big deal, everyone has it. Well, I didn't and thank God I do not now. Supposedly 80% have HSV-1 and 25% have GHSV-1 or HSV-2. Always always always cover your member with a latex or polyurethane condom. Also, never lick them until you have a full panel STI/STD test. You can get herpes whitlow via fingering, however, it's very rare.

You did the right thing.
 
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Shouldn't read into it. Women state this stupid shi* all the time.

She's probably on her cycle or something
 
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So my ex recently posted on her Insta that she's "giving up boys". I know I should give zero s**ts, but this has given me a weird sense of both satisfaction and sadness for her. It validates that I was 200% correct to split with her because she's seemingly unstable, but at the same time she deserves a decent guy in her life.

My ex never really told me about this, but I think she's bisexual. She never mentioned any relationships with girls or sex with women but it was listed on her FB as a possible interest.

She's posted with 2 guys since me, but weird thing is that both of them were just a one-off post and then disappeared forever. So I'm guessing they split with her too.

Still, "giving up men" seems like a bit of a ridiculous leap. Have you guys ever seen any weird s**t like this with an ex and been both happy you got up and kind of sorry for her too?

(In B4 "feeling sorry for a woman means u a beta cuck son LOLALPHA")
She said BOYS...

Referring to you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She said BOYS...

Referring to you.
SICK BURN BROSEPH STYLIN!!!

Didn’t you have me on Ignore? Funny how you ignore all my advice but pop up to make silly comments at every opportunity.

If she’s referring to me 2 years after we broke up and after 1.5 years of NC, I must be one hell of a “boy”...
 

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So my ex recently posted on her Insta that she's "giving up boys". I know I should give zero s**ts, but this has given me a weird sense of both satisfaction and sadness for her. It validates that I was 200% correct to split with her because she's seemingly unstable, but at the same time she deserves a decent guy in her life.

My ex never really told me about this, but I think she's bisexual. She never mentioned any relationships with girls or sex with women but it was listed on her FB as a possible interest.

She's posted with 2 guys since me, but weird thing is that both of them were just a one-off post and then disappeared forever. So I'm guessing they split with her too.

Still, "giving up men" seems like a bit of a ridiculous leap. Have you guys ever seen any weird s**t like this with an ex and been both happy you got up and kind of sorry for her too?

(In B4 "feeling sorry for a woman means u a beta cuck son LOLALPHA")
have you noticed how woman wants to put a selfie together on facebook and men just dont give a f? they refuse to take pics and dissapear


one of my exes almost cried when i refused to take snap pic with her. WTf! lol
 

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You can get herpes whitlow via fingering, however, it's very rare.

You did the right thing.
Thanks man, appreciate it.

Yeah, asymptomatic shedding is the worst. So many people are ignorant about it too. I think herpes whitlow would be pretty much the worst version because you can't even touch girls you like without gloves...

have you noticed how woman wants to put a selfie together on facebook and men just dont give a f? they refuse to take pics and dissapear


one of my exes almost cried when i refused to take snap pic with her. WTf! lol
I actually don't mind the occasional group photo if we're an established thing. Irritating when it's first date though, or every 5 minutes.

It all feeds into narcissism. Some guys with exceptionally pretty GFs do the same thing on their insta, because their partner is just a status symbol they wheel out whenever they want to j*rk themselves off.
 

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Every girl says "NO MORE FVCKBOYS"
and thats %100 all they want.. is fvckboys.

They are stuck in cognitive dissonance of relationships(their mind/conditioning)
and their bodies(sexually free/polymory)

this causes them to seek the real attractive guys that get them wet(players)
while trying to be exclusive with them(social conditioning)

every guy they lock down for a bit always does the exact same goddamn thing.
what is it??? ohhhh its ****ing other women!!! uh oh!

this causes them trauma, abandonment, betrayal, heartbreak because their one and only "man"
got the feels for another girl. its funny because only like 1 out of every 100 guy can even sleep with multiple plates.
but they magically somehow find them and get screwed.

The reason why guys are labeled as players, is because the only way to fvck these girls is to become an image
of the boyfriend she wants. pretty fvcking chitty if you ask me, guys just cant win.

This explains why...
- girls(and chode guys as well) are so fvcking crazy. Bi-polar, insane, psycho, mood wings, hamster wheel etc..
- why most girls only have guy friends.(competition and hatred for other attractive females)
- hot girls are ALWAYS with fat girls.(no competition)

tl;dr

Girls are always looking for ltrs.. they only want attractive guys that get them wet.
attractive guys that get them wet are players who have to play BF to sleep with them.
girl leaves hurt, goes on to next player thinking hes the one, rinse cycle repeat.

monogamy has done a number on society
 

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Every girl says "NO MORE FVCKBOYS"
and thats %100 all they want.. is fvckboys.

They are stuck in cognitive dissonance of relationships(their mind/conditioning)
and their bodies(sexually free/polymory)

this causes them to seek the real attractive guys that get them wet(players)
while trying to be exclusive with them(social conditioning)

every guy they lock down for a bit always does the exact same goddamn thing.
what is it??? ohhhh its ****ing other women!!! uh oh!

this causes them trauma, abandonment, betrayal, heartbreak because their one and only "man"
got the feels for another girl. its funny because only like 1 out of every 100 guy can even sleep with multiple plates.
but they magically somehow find them and get screwed.

The reason why guys are labeled as players, is because the only way to fvck these girls is to become an image
of the boyfriend she wants. pretty fvcking chitty if you ask me, guys just cant win.

This explains why...
- girls(and chode guys as well) are so fvcking crazy. Bi-polar, insane, psycho, mood wings, hamster wheel etc..
- why most girls only have guy friends.(competition and hatred for other attractive females)
- hot girls are ALWAYS with fat girls.(no competition)

tl;dr

Girls are always looking for ltrs.. they only want attractive guys that get them wet.
attractive guys that get them wet are players who have to play BF to sleep with them.
girl leaves hurt, goes on to next player thinking hes the one, rinse cycle repeat.

monogamy has done a number on society
Great post i agree but this wasnt a thing before internet it seems
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SICK BURN BROSEPH STYLIN!!!

Didn’t you have me on Ignore? Funny how you ignore all my advice but pop up to make silly comments at every opportunity.

If she’s referring to me 2 years after we broke up and after 1.5 years of NC, I must be one hell of a “boy”...
You don't have any advice.

Why would you be looking at her page 2 years after breaking up? Kinda pathetic.
 

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You don't have any advice.

Why would you be looking at her page 2 years after breaking up? Kinda pathetic.
Maybe because I had a meaningful human connection with her, and I'm emotionally mature enough to look at my ex's fun photos of her cool life without having a total mental breakdown?

Do you know what a romantic connection is? Have you ever had a girlfriend in your life? An actual girl who likes you because you're you, not because Daddy gives you money and you give it to her and pretend you earned it yourself?

What's "pathetic" is you traipsing around the boards acting like a total c**t towards people in every thread you participate in, while bragging about going to prison, being an alcoholic and having sex with prostitutes.

But I guess it beats actually learning how to date women or starting the big house flipping business you keep talking about that doesn't actually exist.

Keep posting your garbage in my thread if you want, I'm not going to deign you with a response anymore. You just enjoy the attention I give you because you don't have a life.

@Reykhel I remember you said this guy doesn't look for BS arguments and we all just pick on him. Check out his behaviour in this thread, dude ;)
 

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She's giving up men in the same regard as "I'm not ready for a relationship".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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