"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My ex-girlfriend wants me back -- but many things happend.

illmatic1005

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About a year ago, I started dating this really cute chick. After a while, we became exclusive and even "fell in love with each other", so to speak.

We were the near perfect couple, and were always happy around each other. Until i found out i had to move far away from her. As months passed, we grew closer and closer to each other, but as the time i had to move came closer, she also began to give me no space.

To make a long story short, she basically became overprotective n jealous out of fear of losing me and it repelled me. I ended up breaking up with her just before i left (11 month relationship)

her family sent me threatening emails, her brother beat me up, and tons of nonsense. i was banned from the family and she hated me because she thought i cheated on her.

For a month we didnt talk. I told her to sotp calling and emaling me and she did. I thought it was all over

Until she emails me with tons of pictures and quotes and a paragraph saying how much she misses me and how she tried to like other people, but couldnt and how im the only one for her..

And the only thing is , is thati still have some feelings for her. However, i am dating another girl and dont want to be back in my ex's family. They all hate me, i hate them

I need help. Should i email her back, tell her how i feel, and risk things with the new girl?..Or not respond? Or respond casually like hey hows it going.

Before i left i told her we shouldnt speak anymore and she agreed, until a month later.

what do i dooo?!?!?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pingpongz

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You should keep them both, you'r ex lives far away right? U could go meet her for occasional sex once a month :D

Plus it would be harder to find out that you'r dating 2 girls ;)
 

brian123

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Sounds like alot of drama. You don't need drama. Move on.
 

HBK

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Flaky Drama Queen. Move on man for your own good and hers
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ac3

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haha good job. don't even bother writing back, it will drive her even crazier about you
 

illmatic1005

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ac3 said:
haha good job. don't even bother writing back, it will drive her even crazier about you
i shouldnt even write back to say hi and keep it casual?

ill admit it i do kinda miss her....should we even try to just be friends at least? even tho it prob wont work

idk its hard for me to just ignore her completely. i did for 3-4 weeks but still thought about her, no matter who i was with when i thought id get over her in at most a week.

idk mannn
 

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will you really be able to be her friend when she will tell you how hard this guy blew his load all over her face and how she enjoys to svck him off and see him get off? because that's the kind of stuff she will end up telling you to get you jealous and rilled up.
 

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illmatic1005 said:
i shouldnt even write back to say hi and keep it casual?

ill admit it i do kinda miss her....should we even try to just be friends at least? even tho it prob wont work

idk its hard for me to just ignore her completely. i did for 3-4 weeks but still thought about her, no matter who i was with when i thought id get over her in at most a week.

idk mannn

Its impossible to stay friends with your ex is either of u still has feelings...
 

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Where is your dignity? Have you completely stripped yourself of it?

A man prioritizes his dignity above all else.

This woman and her family aren't worth the time you're wasting thinking about them. You need to be treating yourself a lot better than this, man.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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