Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
Thats really a crazy situation! Gonna do that... If she comes back here I will gonna find something to protect me legally.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
My ex GF in front of my house right now!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
Thanks man!
Really bad man :/... I hope she wont do anything, but im bit affraid.
I have a friend that is a lawyer, gonna talk to him and look for some suggestions.
Btw, just heard that she was on street today with her mother... She seemed happy and not feeling bad at all as my friend told me.
I think this is purely drama queen or emotional blackmail. Just acting when she tries to talk with me.
Women can be fcking crazy haha
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
Never gonna allow that again. I can see now that im alone and my mind is getting clear that all those situations are pure manipulation.
In the end, she is just acting. Dont think she is really sad about me leaving her... The only thing she can be sad is that she lost her provider (money, attention, etc...)
So glad im out of it!!
Thanks for all your support man!
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
That's what I tried, but as wifehunter said, there is no way to have a properly conversation with someone that doesnt want it.
She didnt came back here untill now... Hope it doesnt happen again!
lamath
Master Don Juan
This women ?
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If so, dont hold back on you boundries and dont give in one bit, she seems like a very dangerous women to me.
Weird Stuff Happened...
It may see stupid, but I would like to hear some opinions. I'm on a LTR for one year, and this week something weird happened... the same time it happened, I just felt something might be wrong. But btw, I kind of tried to believe that I'm wrong. I don't like to believe into something until I'm...
www.sosuave.net
If so, dont hold back on you boundries and dont give in one bit, she seems like a very dangerous women to me.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
This one! I had a hard time to broke up... Had to do it carefully.This women ?
Weird Stuff Happened...
It may see stupid, but I would like to hear some opinions. I'm on a LTR for one year, and this week something weird happened... the same time it happened, I just felt something might be wrong. But btw, I kind of tried to believe that I'm wrong. I don't like to believe into something until I'm...
If so, dont hold back on you boundries and dont give in one bit, she seems like a very dangerous women to me.
Since our last conversation I was already alone and getting out of this relationship.
But man, she is really good to manipulate. Thats why I know there was some other weird stuffs happening.
For my own sake I will never allow that women to be around me again!
EyeOnThePrize
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It's the last thing you have to say. Now just ghost.
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
Yes! I'm doing that and hoping she won't come here those nexts days.
If my assumptions are right... That would be the worst and more dangerous kind of girl to date.
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Do you have a buddy who can go with you, in case of escalation?
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
Hey man,
It wasn't necessary... I just wait some hours until she gave up staying here. Now she is not caming here anymore, so I think she realized that there is no way back!
Got freaked out that day! hahah
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.