"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My ex GF in front of my house right now!

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I've been stalked four times (perhaps more if they were good enough stalkers).
Her next move will be to push your buttons. She wants a reaction (any attention is better than no attention)
Then... after she accepts that you aren't interested, she'll feel the need to regain her pride. Expect further drama and unkind situations (one of these keyed my car) .

If you think it's serious, file a restraining order. It's been years since I've encountered your situation, but with the climate *these days* you need all the evidence and protection on your side.
Thats really a crazy situation! Gonna do that... If she comes back here I will gonna find something to protect me legally.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hire someone to get video or pictures of her doing this. In fact, go into the cop shop and ask them who they recommend....let the cops show concern for you, not her. She must know you're alone with no buddies or family. This situation sucks. She's abusive and a criminal at this point. Kind of worried for you, maybe contact a lawyer before the cops?
Thanks man!

Really bad man :/... I hope she wont do anything, but im bit affraid.

I have a friend that is a lawyer, gonna talk to him and look for some suggestions.

Btw, just heard that she was on street today with her mother... She seemed happy and not feeling bad at all as my friend told me.

I think this is purely drama queen or emotional blackmail. Just acting when she tries to talk with me.

Women can be fcking crazy haha
 

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This is a very serious red flag.


DONT LET HER BACK INTO YOUR LIFE FOR ANY REASON.
Never gonna allow that again. I can see now that im alone and my mind is getting clear that all those situations are pure manipulation.

In the end, she is just acting. Dont think she is really sad about me leaving her... The only thing she can be sad is that she lost her provider (money, attention, etc...)

So glad im out of it!!

Thanks for all your support man!
 

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Send her @EyeOnThePrize ‘s text via messenger and see what happens. If she doesn‘t back off you have evidence of you trying to solve the situation without confrontation
That's what I tried, but as wifehunter said, there is no way to have a properly conversation with someone that doesnt want it.

She didnt came back here untill now... Hope it doesnt happen again!
 

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This women ?



If so, dont hold back on you boundries and dont give in one bit, she seems like a very dangerous women to me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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This women ?



If so, dont hold back on you boundries and dont give in one bit, she seems like a very dangerous women to me.
This one! I had a hard time to broke up... Had to do it carefully.

Since our last conversation I was already alone and getting out of this relationship.

But man, she is really good to manipulate. Thats why I know there was some other weird stuffs happening.

For my own sake I will never allow that women to be around me again!
 

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I said something similar to that. Its really the best way to talk to someone in that case.

The only problem is that she doesnt care about having a proper conversation or respecting my decision.
It's the last thing you have to say. Now just ghost.
 

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It's the last thing you have to say. Now just ghost.
Yes! I'm doing that and hoping she won't come here those nexts days.

If my assumptions are right... That would be the worst and more dangerous kind of girl to date.
 

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Do you have a buddy who can go with you, in case of escalation?
Hey man,

It wasn't necessary... I just wait some hours until she gave up staying here. Now she is not caming here anymore, so I think she realized that there is no way back!

Got freaked out that day! hahah
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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