"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My ex-gf and another girl hate each other. Is it okay for me to hookup wit that girl?

eaglez1177

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Hey everyone. My gf and I went out for 6 months until i broke up with her about a week ago, and to be honest, im pretty attracted to this other girl that goes to my school (me, my ex, and this girl all go to the same school). Only thing is that my ex-gf and this girl (I'll call her Sally), HATE each other's guts. They used to be good friends a few years ago but they got into a huge fight when my ex-gf f*cked the guy Sally had a crush on. They've hated each other ever since, and I dont know if its okay or not for me to get some ass from Sally.

I really dont wanna be seen as an assh*le, and im worried that my ex gf may find out (like if it gets around the grade or if Sally mentions something to her). I ended things really nice and as friends with my ex gf, and I really dont wanna come across as a doucheb*g by doing this.

What do you guys reccommend I do? I really wanna get some ass from Sally lol...should I wait another week or so?
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you broke up with her 6 months ago, then I don't see the problem. I do understand where your coming from on not wanting to offend your ex-gf.

Ask yourself, is hooking up with Sally, worth potentially hurting your ex-gf?
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Only thing is that my ex-gf and this girl (I'll call her Sally), HATE each other's guts. They used to be good friends a few years ago but they got into a huge fight when my ex-gf f*cked the guy Sally had a crush on. They've hated each other ever since, and I dont know if its okay or not for me to get some ass from Sally.
Looks like your ex-gf is due to get some karma coming her way!

Go for it!

You're seriously not trying to ask your EX permission to go bang another chick, are you?
 

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cw92 said:
If you broke up with her 6 months ago, then I don't see the problem. I do understand where your coming from on not wanting to offend your ex-gf.

Ask yourself, is hooking up with Sally, worth potentially hurting your ex-gf?
No no we went out for 6 months and then broke up about a week ago.
 

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No no we went out for 6 months and then broke up about a week ago.
Oh wow, completely mis-read that. Well honestly, I would do it. I can't really give you a long list of pro's and con's, but I mean isnt the goal to move on from a break-up as soon as possible?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yea your right...I talked to one of my friends who is pretty close with Sally, and she said that Sally thinks im hot but doesnt want my sloppy seconds from my ex gf. Arghh! Is there anything I can do???
 

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Yes go for it... If they hate each other they wont be around each other. And you dont have a gf ne more.
 

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Yea your right...I talked to one of my friends who is pretty close with Sally, and she said that Sally thinks im hot but doesnt want my sloppy seconds from my ex gf. Arghh! Is there anything I can do???
She thinks you're hot, that's good enough. Now you just need to set up the right opportunity to sweet talk her out of the sloppy second mindset. She won't even think about it when she's all hot & horny.
 

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Honestly if you don't have anything invested in your ex (and you probably shouldn't) then there's nothing really keeping you from doing it.

I'm just hoping you're not pulling the 'revenge' card in hopes to get your ex jealous. It's a losing man's game, trust me. You may win the battle, but girls always win the war when it comes to games. They've been playing them since they were in their cribs. Men learn to play games around our age (late teens early twenties) and think they can keep up... FALSE.
 

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No no im def not pulling the revenge card...when i broke up with her i tried to be as friendly and nice about it as possible and then just move on.

but now im just in a position where i've been down on my game, and I just legit NEED ass asap or im gonna go fvckin crazy...its just tough going from getting laid a few times a week to absolutely nothing
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go for it, TAP THAT NEW ASS! make Sally scream so loud that the echo will reach your ex bedroom window.

All bets are off once you break off. Its not your fault that your ex hasn't hooked up yet with a new guy (which coincidentally might also end up being a friend of yours if she is so bound on revenge).
 

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But i dont wanna make this seem like revenge!! because if thats the impression she gets, then shes gonna go around and spread SO MUCH SH*T about me. shes gonna start so many rumors and sh*t and be so pissed off
 

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Ok you really shouldn't care what your ex thinks of you now. You two are over with. Now you do say you don't want to come off as an ass to her. Not sure why you care, but you WILL come off as an ass by banging sally.

Oh and if you're in highschool, she WILL find out.
 

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Stop acting like a pvssy for fvcks sake...

Who gives a **** if she thinks it's revenge or not your not with her anymore so why should you care what she thinks of you?

Why do you care if she starts rumors , she will come off as an insecure little b1tch .....I'm glad that guys are starting to be scared of their X's....fvcking pathetic.
 
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