"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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my ex contacted me.

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jophil is right dude. Its not worth your time living the past. Go out as sson as you meet a pretty hot and even more caring person. You will say to yourself .damn I was missing out and wasting time over oneitis on an Ex, knowing that its ****ing overe dude.

walking away out of a situation is the best advice dude.
you , we all make descions in life and we either make the choice or regret it.

You know what t do so go do it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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broken dreams said:
jophil is right dude. Its not worth your time living the past. Go out as sson as you meet a pretty hot and even more caring person. You will say to yourself .damn I was missing out and wasting time over oneitis on an Ex, knowing that its ****ing overe dude.

walking away out of a situation is the best advice dude.
you , we all make descions in life and we either make the choice or regret it.

You know what t do so go do it.
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WHAT FYCK IS THIS BYTCH talking about. FYCK DISRESPECTFUL BYTCHES! FYCK BYTCHES THAT THINK THE'RE BETTER THAN YOU! FYCK BYTCHES THAT USE SEX TO MANIPULATE YOU! THE'RE FYCKING ANIMALS and the ONLY WAY to be better and give 'em a slap in their face is to ignore 100%! This is the only life you got! Make something of it! Don't be used by "GARBAGE WOMEN"!
 

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DJArlington said:
fast forward to two days ago, she instant messages me out of the blue because she's proud of an accomplishment in her career (that she wanted to tell me about) and than wants to make sure there are no ill feelings between us, but also wanted to make sure that i was still in love with her. what kind of crazy crap is this? there is seriously something wrong here.

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She means something like this,
" I am contacting you again by using the pretext of my career accomplishment. I am not traveling too well in my personal life. My new BF/ branch is unstable or just broke, and I am testing your feelings toward me so that I could perhaps branch swing backwards to you. I want to make sure that there are no hard feelings because that will increase my chances of manipulating you into taking me back UNTIL I find another chump to f**k my way into into an LTR with him, at which time I will provoke a drama with you and dump your ass again..

Hey DJarly, you wanna play this game with this h0 ?
 
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jophil28 said:
She means something like this,
" I am contacting you again by using the pretext of my career accomplishment. I am not traveling too well in my personal life. My new BF/ branch is unstable or just broke, and I am testing your feelings toward me so that I could perhaps branch swing backwards to you. I want to make sure that there are no hard feelings because that will increase my chances of manipulating you into talking me back UNTIL I find another chump to f**k my way into into an LTR with him, at which time I will provoke a drama with you and dump your ass again..

Hey DJarly, you wanna play this game with this h0 ?
exactly!!!
jophil is right, and this is why you must loose her contact info and do not reply to her.
 

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jophil28 said:
She means something like this,
" I am contacting you again by using the pretext of my career accomplishment. I am not traveling too well in my personal life. My new BF/ branch is unstable or just broke, and I am testing your feelings toward me so that I could perhaps branch swing backwards to you. I want to make sure that there are no hard feelings because that will increase my chances of manipulating you into talking me back UNTIL I find another chump to f**k my way into into an LTR with him, at which time I will provoke a drama with you and dump your ass again..

Hey DJarly, you wanna play this game with this h0 ?
This is great advise.

DjArly, remember your strength. When a woman bangs another guy, it's over, an unforgivable, unforgetable offense. There is no going backwards, in life, with her.

Strength, forgive, forget, move on...and NEVER look back. Never be in contact with this woman again.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She's nothing but trouble; don't worry I am working on other chicks and I now have the strength to not let her affect my mind. I still can't believe how low she went. It's freaking pathetic when you think about it.
 

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DJArlington said:
She's nothing but trouble; don't worry I am working on other chicks and I now have the strength to not let her affect my mind. I still can't believe how low she went. It's freaking pathetic when you think about it.
DJArlington,

Are u in VA? I'm in Alexandria.

Like YODA would say..."Don't try, Must DO."

If it doesn't work on current target, work on a another. Spin plates.

She's gone at this point the girl you were lovin and bangin is gone. The world you knew with her has so much changed. She's gone through changes. And whether you admit it or not so have YOU.

I've been through the same the first move is usually the right move.

A wise man once told me "You can't fuk and fight..then turn around and be friends." He was right.

Best wishes.
 

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DoubleA said:
A wise man once told me "You can't fuk and fight..then turn around and be friends."

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Ahh, so true.
 
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