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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My ex called me out of the blue

jigga23

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So i just recently started school again my ex is still up here. Sh!t was pretty serious living together, marriage talk etc. Shes with some other dude i think. We ran into each other 1 week ago on campus. I was such a d1ck to here. Shes like why didnt you say hi when i saw you at so and so i replied with there was no need. she said call me sometime i said for what. sh1t like that. I called her once right before i moved back. she didnt answer probably cause i got a new number. dumb old me told her my new number when i ran into her.
After that convo i was like oh well she calls she calls whatever. So its been a week and i got a missed call from here tonight. I called her back like 2 hours later she didnt answer. She couldve called to see the dog or something (we bought a dog together) or maybe her f@g bf or whatever he is pissing her off. beats me. not that i care a whole lot.
anyways what should i do should i just ignore her call if she calls back and see her when i see her or answer to see what she wanted?
 

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Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Do you want to see her? If no, then don't answer her calls or call back.
 

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the thing is i kind of want to see her. we both done fvcked up sh!t to each other. she hurt me in the end but me and her were a good couple for the most part. i think her head wasnt there when we broke up. im not sure of her intentions she said she was moving to the city in two months but then again she said that like 6 months ago so i dont know.
Regardless of what she wants all i know is that if or when she calls back i will say before anything is said i want to hear an apology for everything.
 

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forgive her... forget her... and find someone new
 

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jamescr73

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maybe she wanted a booty call. Girls do that so they dont add to the "number".
 

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now shes going to be on mind like all day now during school wondering why she called of course she didnt call back typical sh!t. oh well fvck her im not calling her again.
 

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jigga23 said:
now shes going to be on mind like all day now during school wondering why she called of course she didnt call back typical sh!t. oh well fvck her im not calling her again.
Funny thing... I used to think about the ex quite a bit when I was single. But, now that I've had a girlfriend for quite some time, I never think about her at all. I'm not saying, grabbing a new girl is the solution to all lifes problems but it does wonders for the psyche.

Just try to make a wise decision and don't do it out of desperation. Would you want to be with this same girl in 10 years? I can honestly answer that with a "no" for my last relationship.
 

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stop thinking about the past. people always remember the good parts of a relationship even after it went sour. if you were such a good couple then why aren't you together anymore? try remembering the days she nagged and b@tched. try remembering what caused the rift between you two.

i banged into a few of my exs and i was nice to them but that didn't make me forget why were not together anymore. even if they look f@cking great it's just a mask because underneath she's the same dam thing you went out with before.
 
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