"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My Ephinany, your past CAN dictate ur future

mtllcanpssy

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Alright so i was reading some articles today and i realized this, what one has done in the past, they are likely to do in the future. So the importance of this is for people to realize that they can change the present and ultimately change everything, as long as you just try. Yes you will fail, but if get tough when the tough gets going then you will prevail and you shall be successful. I could go deeper into this but i just wanted to make it short. peace
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Eddymj89

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Yes, but here is my question. What if the person in question, perhaps not yourself, has not had the best past. What if they have had a questionable past, one which when you hear about it you cringe with distaste. Yet, this person seems to have a great personality, is fun, etc, etc, etc. One may say forget the past, but as you say, the past cannot be forgotten. So I suppose that can go both ways, what you see yourself having done, and what the other person has done in the past. It changes them, as it may change you, shall you let it. Even if you don't let it, it may still leave you with that sour taste in your mouth, no matter how great and beautiful the girl/woman may be. Is this not true?
 

dbot

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Well anything can dictate your future, IF you let it. But it's never too late to change.
 

oakraiderz2

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You didnt say anything new really. But uhh...yea...cool
 
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