hmmm ok guys, i am going to write down my own method here or lets say, what i realised yesterday. ok, its pretty hard to start like that.
well, i was always a good looking guy with very shy introvert attitude. and everytime a HB went out of my sight, whether she gives me attention or not, i kicked myself for not being able to make a move? im not talking about cold moves but even hot moves. i was clear at times that the girl was checking me out, but i would not be able to make a move. why? i always reasoned that i am egoistic and it is better if the girl comes to me instead of me going to her, that would keep my value. i always cursed myself for not doing what i wanted to do, just because of my ego. but then i realised that it is not my ego, it is my FEAR! even when i know in looks department, she is of my level or i am of her level or i deserve her, i still found insecurities like money, social proof or physique or anything in myself unconsciously, so i was not being able to accept my role as a MAN. i was cursing my luck or my parents even, but i was not accepting that i was born a MAN and i should act like one. here, thanks to you guys! i joined this site for a long time but i am fairly new to this forum and i am starting to change my beliefs. I realise THAT IT ALL COMES DOWN TO THE MAN AND WOMAN THING. whether she is a supermodel or she is a HB in town, I am still the Man. I have got things to offer as a man should. and when i know that i am one of the best member of the man species, so i should have the guts to accept my role as a man. this really gave a huge boost in my confidence in this game. I am not afraid now. I understand now, whether she is a supermodel or a wealthy b!tch, she still craves sex and waiting to mate with the next MAN to keep her genes alive. its the basic thing, that a man and a woman are born to have sex to keep up the evolution process. the only thing is that we look for a better level or equal level of social value (more apparently) and better chances of new generation in the future. so we got to be of her level or she has got to be of our level. this is the primary eligibility criterion. so if u like a girl (subconciously, u know she is of ur level and she will better chances of raising ur genes), u have to go for her without lowering your level in her eyes. then the game is done. its not game even, its the process that our ancestors followed and we have got to follow.
now, when u approach a girl, u r following ur masculine nature and thus, u have some value in her eyes. u r just following the primitive rules. and u have got to make a move for ur girl. it is the way it is done. earlier i used to think, why i should approach or start off with a girl and why not she? the simple reason is that she has got suitors coming over to her, hot girls do have that. so they have been hardwired to wait for the man to come over to 'em. she already has a choice, maybe but that is all due to the social matrix. but what they are wanting unconciously is a MAN! if u r a man, if they notice you, they will give u hints that she is open adn if she doesnt, she is probably waiting for u if she is not taken by another MAN. so i just decided to accept my sexual nature and what i am supposed to be and act like.
so, i think being the MAN and going for the girl is the best way that we can adopt, there is absolutely no threat at all. now, have any of u ever seen a cowboy taming a wild horse? u would see the best of them follow a way. its not roping the horse, its not chasing it, what they do is, they stand direct in front of the horse empty handed and just stands in a non threatening posture. whenever the horse lowers his head, the cowboy step forward and instantly the horsed looks up to see him but it sees that he is only standing in the same non threatening manner, again it lowers his head and again he makes his move forward, in this way time and again, he ultimately goes withing touching limits of the animal and ultimately touches it very gently and goes on caressing its body parts until the point comes when he can just touch him where he wants, circle round the horse and move around the horse freely while the horse relaxes, and then he puts the reign and watever they call it, and ultimately mounts on it and rides over it. second thing is, there is a way to everything. if u r a MAN, u have a chance no doubt. but if u go about it in a wrong way, then u have a lesser chance then the one who goes in the right way. so u got to start up and connect with the girl first of all because even if she wants u as a MAN unconciously, she doesnt know you and her concious mind would prove to be a barrier to her unconcious thinking and her seduction. so the best way is start up in a way where u are not lowering ur value to hers, and then go on to build the connection where she has the reason to make out with you. she knows you and she likes you in that way, so she would go as you want it to go or she may actually seduce you as well, if she is forward enuff.
always remember when u approach a girl, if she is open or looking for a partner, she would first check you out because you are a stranger in her world adn we are all meant to follow our sexual nature. now, she probably decides in five seconds in which category you fall with your first impression. if u go out direct, then she is either like "oh, i like this guy, but i am rather taken by surprise adn dont know how to react, so i just say no" but she is saying yes to u unconciously, but when u just start up a natural convo, she is probably getting the time to feel ur sexual value and you are also creating comfort by vibing and connecting with her. its like she feels "this guy is hot" and she opens up and its a two way interactive sharing now, ie, vibing or connecting. english is not my mother tongue so dont know what you actually mean by vibing and connecting or if they are different terms, but what i mean is when u actually pull her out and its like u say 1, she says 2, u say 3... thats what i call vibing, u cannot get the vibing by asking her," were ur parents love-married or arrange-married?" why would she answer that, but it should be situationally relevant and in the right energy level. so vibing is when u successfully create a mutual contribution from both sides, that means she trusts you, she is comfortable with you and she thinks you are of her level or in other words, you have entered her world and become a part of that, though having a equal status in her eye. when u have this setting in, you can go for the flirting and kino. though casual kino can be used during getting the vibe too. what i understand that u dont have to know her life story and say that u have a pretty same story to get her to like u, its the condition when she is open to tell u her lifestory that u can start her flirting and get her to physically submit to you!
well guys, im not master don juan, but i am slowly realising a change within myself. guys, i think its better if u let the girl know u are interested in her at the right time, since we are supposed to do so, arent we? just maintain the right way or u become a creep or a loser in her eyes. u r the MAN and she is the WOMAN that matters and it is just two persons in this game, no social influences if u play it right!
So, keep rockin' my playa' buddies and i have talked so much, i m not used to it LOL
phew, thanks for hearing....
well, i was always a good looking guy with very shy introvert attitude. and everytime a HB went out of my sight, whether she gives me attention or not, i kicked myself for not being able to make a move? im not talking about cold moves but even hot moves. i was clear at times that the girl was checking me out, but i would not be able to make a move. why? i always reasoned that i am egoistic and it is better if the girl comes to me instead of me going to her, that would keep my value. i always cursed myself for not doing what i wanted to do, just because of my ego. but then i realised that it is not my ego, it is my FEAR! even when i know in looks department, she is of my level or i am of her level or i deserve her, i still found insecurities like money, social proof or physique or anything in myself unconsciously, so i was not being able to accept my role as a MAN. i was cursing my luck or my parents even, but i was not accepting that i was born a MAN and i should act like one. here, thanks to you guys! i joined this site for a long time but i am fairly new to this forum and i am starting to change my beliefs. I realise THAT IT ALL COMES DOWN TO THE MAN AND WOMAN THING. whether she is a supermodel or she is a HB in town, I am still the Man. I have got things to offer as a man should. and when i know that i am one of the best member of the man species, so i should have the guts to accept my role as a man. this really gave a huge boost in my confidence in this game. I am not afraid now. I understand now, whether she is a supermodel or a wealthy b!tch, she still craves sex and waiting to mate with the next MAN to keep her genes alive. its the basic thing, that a man and a woman are born to have sex to keep up the evolution process. the only thing is that we look for a better level or equal level of social value (more apparently) and better chances of new generation in the future. so we got to be of her level or she has got to be of our level. this is the primary eligibility criterion. so if u like a girl (subconciously, u know she is of ur level and she will better chances of raising ur genes), u have to go for her without lowering your level in her eyes. then the game is done. its not game even, its the process that our ancestors followed and we have got to follow.
now, when u approach a girl, u r following ur masculine nature and thus, u have some value in her eyes. u r just following the primitive rules. and u have got to make a move for ur girl. it is the way it is done. earlier i used to think, why i should approach or start off with a girl and why not she? the simple reason is that she has got suitors coming over to her, hot girls do have that. so they have been hardwired to wait for the man to come over to 'em. she already has a choice, maybe but that is all due to the social matrix. but what they are wanting unconciously is a MAN! if u r a man, if they notice you, they will give u hints that she is open adn if she doesnt, she is probably waiting for u if she is not taken by another MAN. so i just decided to accept my sexual nature and what i am supposed to be and act like.
so, i think being the MAN and going for the girl is the best way that we can adopt, there is absolutely no threat at all. now, have any of u ever seen a cowboy taming a wild horse? u would see the best of them follow a way. its not roping the horse, its not chasing it, what they do is, they stand direct in front of the horse empty handed and just stands in a non threatening posture. whenever the horse lowers his head, the cowboy step forward and instantly the horsed looks up to see him but it sees that he is only standing in the same non threatening manner, again it lowers his head and again he makes his move forward, in this way time and again, he ultimately goes withing touching limits of the animal and ultimately touches it very gently and goes on caressing its body parts until the point comes when he can just touch him where he wants, circle round the horse and move around the horse freely while the horse relaxes, and then he puts the reign and watever they call it, and ultimately mounts on it and rides over it. second thing is, there is a way to everything. if u r a MAN, u have a chance no doubt. but if u go about it in a wrong way, then u have a lesser chance then the one who goes in the right way. so u got to start up and connect with the girl first of all because even if she wants u as a MAN unconciously, she doesnt know you and her concious mind would prove to be a barrier to her unconcious thinking and her seduction. so the best way is start up in a way where u are not lowering ur value to hers, and then go on to build the connection where she has the reason to make out with you. she knows you and she likes you in that way, so she would go as you want it to go or she may actually seduce you as well, if she is forward enuff.
always remember when u approach a girl, if she is open or looking for a partner, she would first check you out because you are a stranger in her world adn we are all meant to follow our sexual nature. now, she probably decides in five seconds in which category you fall with your first impression. if u go out direct, then she is either like "oh, i like this guy, but i am rather taken by surprise adn dont know how to react, so i just say no" but she is saying yes to u unconciously, but when u just start up a natural convo, she is probably getting the time to feel ur sexual value and you are also creating comfort by vibing and connecting with her. its like she feels "this guy is hot" and she opens up and its a two way interactive sharing now, ie, vibing or connecting. english is not my mother tongue so dont know what you actually mean by vibing and connecting or if they are different terms, but what i mean is when u actually pull her out and its like u say 1, she says 2, u say 3... thats what i call vibing, u cannot get the vibing by asking her," were ur parents love-married or arrange-married?" why would she answer that, but it should be situationally relevant and in the right energy level. so vibing is when u successfully create a mutual contribution from both sides, that means she trusts you, she is comfortable with you and she thinks you are of her level or in other words, you have entered her world and become a part of that, though having a equal status in her eye. when u have this setting in, you can go for the flirting and kino. though casual kino can be used during getting the vibe too. what i understand that u dont have to know her life story and say that u have a pretty same story to get her to like u, its the condition when she is open to tell u her lifestory that u can start her flirting and get her to physically submit to you!
well guys, im not master don juan, but i am slowly realising a change within myself. guys, i think its better if u let the girl know u are interested in her at the right time, since we are supposed to do so, arent we? just maintain the right way or u become a creep or a loser in her eyes. u r the MAN and she is the WOMAN that matters and it is just two persons in this game, no social influences if u play it right!
So, keep rockin' my playa' buddies and i have talked so much, i m not used to it LOL
phew, thanks for hearing....
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