"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My Dxxk Went Limp !!! Noway

StoneCold

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Hey All

I been with my Gf for 5 months We are in what you call a LDR its not far though 50 miles and i go to see her once weekly..

she says she loves me and everything

well weve had sex 4 times before and man i banged her hard and good and she loved it ...

anyway i planned another fun day out and then booked a room ... and this time i banged her i came and then it just went limp and wouldnt go up at all..... and she did not look happy and was calling me limp **** and i was in shock it did not feel good because i wanted to **** her hard but nothing was happning .....

anway same problem happened in the morning and in the cinema the next day and now im scared that she is gonna lose attraction and lose intrest...

she told me she loved me and everything seems fine but now im home and i have a streange feeling in my stomuch like i just wanna go see her to bang her hard and makie up for the limp time.....

man this is bad real bad !!!

please tell me if i have shot my self in the foot

I love this girl shes very horny in bed... and great to be with ...

i just think i screwed it all up now,,,, **** **** ****

i feel like i have given her the upper hand in the relationship coz my **** didnt worrk...

help meeeeeeeeeeeee
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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realsmoothie

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Wait, what? You came and then your d*ck went limp?

That's the way it's supposed to happen. Unless I'm missing something.
 

DonJuanit0

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I love this girl she is very horny in bed! lol!
w/e I think you're taking this very seriously! Acting like this won't help you mate! Everything is fine down there you might just need to calm a bit! Take your time don't jerk off and go see her again without anxiety and everything will work fine I guess!
 

Fingerling

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realsmoothie said:
Wait, what? You came and then your d*ck went limp?

That's the way it's supposed to happen. Unless I'm missing something.
lol thats what mine says in the manual.

If you jizzed dude thats normal for it to go floppy its what happens. the morning it would have just been playing on your mind so you got a bit nervous.
 

horaholic

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If that happens, you better go 'downtown' for a long time or she WILL lose interest.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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kraytkiller

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Some people can keep it up. Not everyones **** works the same.

If your REALLY worried about this, go buy viagra, take it, bang her hard, act like it's all normal and during the time you don't see her figure out quickly what your problem is.

But that is...sort of... extreme.
 
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