My dream has come true....NOW WHAT?!?

[DJx420]

Boys, when I tell you last night was the best night of my life, I'm not kidding in any way shape or form.

To give a brief background, I've pretty much loved this girl since my freshman year of college (I'm a senior now). She knows as finally at the beginning of this year I sacked up and told her I wanted something more (she declined). ANyways, throughout these 4 years we have been on and off hooking up (once or twice a month usually), but that was it. We never had sex, the furthest we've gotten was bj / eating her out.

So this past week we were in Mexico. She was ALL OVER ME THE ENTIRE TRIP. I found this a little weird so rather than give in to what my **** was telling me I turned her down numerous times (give her a taste of her own medicine). Finally, last night, she BEGGED me to come back with her and we had by FAR the best sex I've ever had (and I think shes ever had). Now were back home, and I want this to continue SO FVCKING badly but I have no clue what my plan of action should be...Help me out SS I need you guys BAD on this one..

Also, keep in mind that she is best friends with about 10 girlsl that I'm pretty decent friends with so in my mind I think I have to handle this very delicately and thought out correctly.

Thanks in advance!

 

[Warrior74]

Time for a new dream eh? 4 years of waiting and playing maybe..maybe not. It's possible that she just wanted to have a fling with you before you all graduate and move on to the real world. Don't forget that IS coming, the real world. Moving up out and and on. Sometimes people just want to get all of their crushes and itches scratched before it's too late. Sobering and not at all what you wanted to hear, I know. But don't go naive just because you got some tail you waited 4 years for.

What to do now...the opposite of what your post is saying...be cool. Be relaxed. Let her come to you for more. Be non reactive. Be non emotional. Do less than she does. Can you do that? Or will you confess your love and ask her to be your girlfriend until the real world gets here? Be cool baby, be cool.

 

[DJx420]

Nono, maybe I explained myself wrong...YES I would love to get her to be my girlfriend, but I would be SO satisfied if it was just a fvck buddy, like I said the sex was unfvckingbelivable.

To be honest, everyone here is looking for weed right now and she was texting me when we got back last night asking if I had any (which I didn't)...So I was just going to find some and invite her over to get some / smoke with us

 

[CaptainJ]

Nono, maybe I explained myself wrong...YES I would love to get her to be my girlfriend, but I would be SO satisfied if it was just a fvck buddy, like I said the sex was unfvckingbelivable.

To be honest, everyone here is looking for weed right now and she was texting me when we got back last night asking if I had any (which I didn't)...So I was just going to find some and invite her over to get some / smoke with us

Go for it, I hear girls get really horny when high. Just make it a you and her thing, no one else. Don't be desperate, just let things transition on their own. If they don't, then she's not interested in anything more than a fling.

 

[kingsam]

so shes a WeedW.hore??

 

[moneyisking]

I am not at level to tell you what to do from here, but all I tell you is CONGRATULATIONS!!! Why are you worried? You achieved something that many of us on this forum can't do yet. You pulled it off good, be proud and don't worry.