"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ive been here for a while readin learning listening and of course posting

I got (no shiit) a date every night this week--i cant freakin believe it--ok ok so a few of the chicks are not all that but hey im busy having fun and just mackin like a badarse

I am actaully talking to a fine girl I talked to her on the phone tongiht for the first time after getting her number in the first ten minutes I was getting kind of frustrated becasue she was being kinda quiet but in a few minutes I had her laughing and finnally I had to say Girl I gotta go--the conversation was great and she is totally psyched to go out with me now.

All I got to say is this site has literally changed my whole perspective in just about every category in life and I am soo damn thankful.


So once again thanks fellow DJ's I truely appreciate your help and of course so do the biatches LOL too bad they will never know about this Top Secret Mackin site
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I must agree. My whole situation is changing. Before I was involved in a 4 year relationship, I was very lonely. Ever since I started visiting here, things have really picked up. Here's a little story:

One of the girls I work with is getting kicked out of her parent's house. I knew that she had a boyfriend, but I said to her "why don't you move into my place?". She took it quite serious and asked how much the rent would be. Then she suddenly remembered she had a boyfriend LOL!

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I didn't care, cause she was just there - Patti Smith
 
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