"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My dilemma of two girls

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unreal-guy

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I am currently in college, taking one class and i've met several girls
but only two stand out to me

my problem is though

1st girl comes to class a lot, does most of the work, yet the problem is she talks a lot but nice look and the girl i'd actually "date" for.
I always drive her home after class too

2nd girl who shows up to 3/10 class, doesn't do the work much, ALWAYS calls me for missing work (SINCE I WAS BEING A NICE GUY AND DECIDED TO BE HER LITTLE HELPER :cuss:) she is decent looking and lives pretty close to me (which is a plus so when i want to get laid the place is near home) :crackup:

what should i do?
what's the best way to break off the "relationship" i have with the 2nd girl?
what's the best way to approach 1st girl as i want to date her?
we are still stuck with each other for another 2~3 months

there are no other "i'd hit it" girls :down:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You problems have nothing to do with these 2 women my friend. Driving women home (unless you're sexing them) and being a "little helper" are not the ways to get women to think of you sexually.
 
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ConantheLibertarian said:
You problems have nothing to do with these 2 women my friend. Driving women home (unless you're sexing them) and being a "little helper" are not the ways to get women to think of you sexually.
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so what can i do to fix the "friendship" into "relationship"
i've been given small taste of flirt to the 2nd girl
she likes the attention and I find it boring
 
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Working out of the 'friend zone' which is where I'm assuming you are with these 2 women, is tough. They pretty much have their minds made up about you at this point as to whether or not they'd have sex with you. The best thing to do at this point, is to make yourself scarce for awhile. If you make a bold move now, it might creep them out given their ostensible perceptions of you. But it's possible to lay low for awhile, reappear, and make a new impression. Your chances aren't good, and we're talking about a big timeframe. Time better spent focusing on other women, I swear they're out there dude ;).
 
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