Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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My dilemma of two girls

unreal-guy

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I am currently in college, taking one class and i've met several girls
but only two stand out to me

my problem is though

1st girl comes to class a lot, does most of the work, yet the problem is she talks a lot but nice look and the girl i'd actually "date" for.
I always drive her home after class too

2nd girl who shows up to 3/10 class, doesn't do the work much, ALWAYS calls me for missing work (SINCE I WAS BEING A NICE GUY AND DECIDED TO BE HER LITTLE HELPER :cuss:) she is decent looking and lives pretty close to me (which is a plus so when i want to get laid the place is near home) :crackup:

what should i do?
what's the best way to break off the "relationship" i have with the 2nd girl?
what's the best way to approach 1st girl as i want to date her?
we are still stuck with each other for another 2~3 months

there are no other "i'd hit it" girls :down:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ConantheLibertarian

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You problems have nothing to do with these 2 women my friend. Driving women home (unless you're sexing them) and being a "little helper" are not the ways to get women to think of you sexually.
 

unreal-guy

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ConantheLibertarian said:
You problems have nothing to do with these 2 women my friend. Driving women home (unless you're sexing them) and being a "little helper" are not the ways to get women to think of you sexually.
so what can i do to fix the "friendship" into "relationship"
i've been given small taste of flirt to the 2nd girl
she likes the attention and I find it boring
 

ConantheLibertarian

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Working out of the 'friend zone' which is where I'm assuming you are with these 2 women, is tough. They pretty much have their minds made up about you at this point as to whether or not they'd have sex with you. The best thing to do at this point, is to make yourself scarce for awhile. If you make a bold move now, it might creep them out given their ostensible perceptions of you. But it's possible to lay low for awhile, reappear, and make a new impression. Your chances aren't good, and we're talking about a big timeframe. Time better spent focusing on other women, I swear they're out there dude ;).
 
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