"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dra

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just thought it would be good mainly for the newbies to post my progress and show them that its takes time and a lot of work but it is so worth it in the end

been coming here for a couple of months now and it has completly changed the way I look at the world

kino probably the best thing ever, takes a bit of practise doing it just enough that she doesn't really notice but has the desired results

example of this in a bar fri night girl(I would say 7 or 8) near the end of the night messing around with her we started trying to waltz to cheesy pop music it was so funny and got lots and lots of kino. saw her next day and as soon as she seen me she had the biggest smile on her face and she started going on about how we have to go out dancing again (SWEET)

now the old me would started to focus all my attention on the one girl and end up no where, the new me however plays it nice and calm and makes sure I keep my options open, I play with her every now and again keeping her interested but making sure that I don't come across as keen, once she sees that ur keen she knows that she has u and can mess u about

I have so much fun with women who are attention seekers, old me gave them all that they wanted no question asked now I mess them around and it drives them mad

example girl(8 or 9 really tidy) such an attention seeker, old me if i seen her would go straight over and start chatting, now I let her come to me if she wants to talk. One time ran into her and her bro spent most of the time talking to the bro (about good looking women I thought that was I nice touch) I wasn't rude with her just made sure she had to work very hard for any attention she got.

attention seeker girl has a boyfriend though which suxs but funny story after the above story she went out with her boyfriend, they where making out she completely forgot his name and she started callled him my name they got in such a fight over it. so I must be having some effect on her

i still have a long way to go major problem is my killer edge with the women is poor whenever I am going in for the kill I think to much and it messes me up but I am working on it
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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misunderstood??

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That's amazing news! Keep up the good work buddy. This should probably be in the success story forum though, so I'll send it over there for ya.
 
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